But like he said though, it's more about working on you personally than running to some other country to find women.You can go to another country and still won't have success. If you find that your environment is not filled with women you enjoy being around, then look somewhere else in this country...but there's enough in this country without having to deal with language and relational barriers of another country. There's too many good women out here looking for a good dude for that. Go after the one's that do "it" for you. Be who you are, and don't let the words of others change who you are inside. You have time to figure this thing out. Remember this though........ it takes time to find the right woman. No matter what, in the end you'll be glad you took the time. So relax, and enjoy life....you'll attract more women to you that way.