Black woman ain't fukking with the avg black man anymore. That's why u gotta chase the bag.

[El negrito de tejas]

Or you could just mess with women that mess with you.

If a woman looks good and she genuinely finds me attractive then I'll entertain her.

Forget all the trivial stuff when we both have mutual interest in each other

 

[FSP]

The issue isn't that women aren't checking for these dudes, the issue is that Average dudes expect extraordinary women
If you're an average height, average looking, average dressing, average job .500 breh...don't expect some dime to give you the time of day
The issue is that people (men and women) tend to think much higher of themselves than the market. Women think that because they "go to the gym" occasionally, that the dress they are wearing at the club doesn't show the fat that they just can't burn off. Brehs who are "ambitious" but still broke want to pretend that they are balling when a Two Chainz or Migos song comes on, but be upset when they can't pull a dime in a Ford Taurus

If we keep it a buck, people need to stay in their lane. I'm a 7 looks wise (not bad, definitely not phenomenal, good shape but not 6'4'') and I'm ok dating another 7

Stop lyin breh. Avg women are checkin way harder than the avg dude.

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

I ain't touching this one, I ain't got no beef with nobody

Bro its not an insult Im just being honest. :scumbag:

 

[MalikX]

You know damn well that chick could still pull that corporate dude after two kids. I've seen bad chicks fall back to the hard working guy after getting seeded up by some G. It's fu**ed up, but that's how the game go, man.

Not me brehs....never....that's all that matters. If other guys wanna do it though, its on them

 

[CodeBlaMeVi]

Let me drop some gems. The guys who you think are eating are really with bum ass hoes. The chicks you don't want watching a glass of water for you let alone raise your children.

The true issue is "regular" guys want to hump and dump the same hoes. "Regular/Good" guys believe they're entitled to said women because they can probably do a little more for them. Whatever that is is subjective.

"Good" brehs have the same intentions and hoes peep that. So, if they get humped and dumped rather someone they're attracted to or find interesting.

Most women know they aren't shyt but dudes formulate these projections of the way they wished said women were. Not their faults.

Women do not settle and will forever try to choose up. Men settle for women.

Lastly, "regular/good" guys equate appearance to quality of women. Another fail. I've seen and lived with "fine" women who are filthy and grimy ass people. Liars, fukking multiple guys within 24 hours, etc.

This includes my son's mother.

Once you see the matrix, brehs wont be as jaded.

 

[VertigoKnight]

Do men really want a 'dime'? I don't do this rating women by numbers shyt. As it's always subjective. The reality is most of these dimes look good but scratch the surface and most are bum ass sloppy women behind the facade they present to you.

For me if you are bringing nothing to the table to build with, what long term use do I have for you?

 

[MalikX]

Corporate breh is eating, belee dat.

Not until he becomes the "Corporate Breh" and has enough trappings from his success.

 

[William F. Russell]

This is true for men AND women but people will slit their wrists b4 admitting to it because everybody has to give a certain amount credence to what their genitalia regards as attractive while pretending others don't exist. And b/c people are married to their victimization b/c it lends credence to future c00ning endeavors. ("I was amazing and nobody wanted me so I had to get a white man/woman!" Translation: My goofy ass mad b/c the above average men and women of my own race ignored me, but I'm better than the dudes/chicks in my lane so I'm going to try and be the very best like no one ever was to attract a non-blk mate and show those bytches/nikkas what they missed out on! Yeah!In reality if I'd put forth that same effort for the people of my own race, I probably would have-- who cares about reality! I'll only improve for white people to teach blk people a lesson about overlooking me!)


So everybody is resentful of the best looking mates for being passed up even as they pass up others. Which drives me insane b/c they mad at someone else for doing the same exact shyt they do to others. Lmao! And this is fine but don't be a hypocrite and whine about people expressing their preferences when u doin the same.

And the beat goes on.

Cue hurt nikka/bytch psalms: "I hate you!" "Fat bytch!" "How dare u?" "You want me to date a fugly chick/dude!"

A whole lot of projection in this post. And it's addressing a strawman argument, not the argument put forth by OP. :cmonbreh:

 

[666 ReVeNGe 666]

So the coli has now refused to accept that the vast majority of black men and women date and marry each other. I suppose when you rarely leave the house your mind starts to fill up with all kinds of rubbish

this is how I feel lol
I feel like im in a twilight zone sometimes on the coli, man

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

A whole lot of projection in this post. And it's addressing a strawman argument, not the argument put forth by OP. :cmonbreh:

Could u describe how his argument was a straw man?

I'm running into this stuff too much online and in real life.
It's becoming a problem and we gotta stop babying people. Instead we should be encouraging them to evaluate potential mates off more than just physical attraction, stop being bitter and take accountabilty for urself and ur attraction patterns, be positive and put in real work into making the necessary changes to get the partner they believe they deserve.

OP's description of these issues would be irrelevant even if they weren't conflated and exaggerated b/c at the end of the day the only person u can change is u. And while he encourages that by the end of his post, nobody in our race seems willing to dig deep and improve themselves unless of course it's to attract another race of people.

Think about how fukked up that mentality is. That many blk men and women are willing to work hard ONLY when the prize at the end of the race is a white person.
"Oh im gonna get rich and successful and say fukk u to..."
"Oh imma get fine and get me a..."

What if the conversation was "Imma be the best black woman/black man I can be to lead my community and have a great black family b/c my race deserves my best."

Why do some only want to improve on the way out of our community even tho non-blks weren't checking for you on the come up either?
Why? Because deep down many believe others are worth the effort, while those of our own race should settle for us at our average or lower.

 

[UpAndComing]

One minute black women only fukk with unemployed thugs whilst ignoring the "squares" with 9-5 now its the opposite?

Those aren't really contradictory statements to be honest

 

[Supreme HD]

Bw don't need us....many bw see BM as being only good for sex and a good time...bit not as father's and husband's....so of you're not aesthetically pleasing...they aren't going G to fukk with u like that

That's why u gotta chase the bag...crackers gonna put hell on u, your own woman ain't looking for u....then u better have that damn bag as your equalizer

my advice to black men in america and uk is to move to a different country where there are a good number of blacks. As a British bruh i would eat well in america, holland etc and because u are American you would eat well in the uk, holland etc. Thats because we are from different places and women like our accents. So I've been told by coli posters that a British black man would eat extremely well in the usa.

 

[xoxodede]

So tired of seeing these threads on here.

Not true. And most black women are not swirling. Or on some colorism ish.

You sound sad and jaded. I am always intrigued to see how the OP looks when I see these post. Maybe a picture and more about your personality can help us give you advice? I don't know...

And yeah.. I date and have always dated regular ass Black men.

 

[1thouwow]

Y'all nikkas be hurt. So y'all really think the average black man ain't bagging black chicks like that bc the system is set up against us? My nikka you're probably just undesirable..

 

[William F. Russell]

Could u describe how his argument was a straw man?

I'm running into this stuff too much online and in real life.
It's becoming a problem and we gotta stop babying people. Instead we should be encouraging them to evaluate potential mates off more than just physical attraction, stop being bitter and take accountabilty for urself and ur attraction patterns, be positive and put in real work into making the necessary changes to get the partner they believe they deserve.

OP's description of these issues would be irrelevant even if they weren't conflated and exaggerated b/c at the end of the day the only person u can change is u. And while he encourages that by the end of his post, nobody in our race seems willing to dig deep and improve themselves unless of course it's to attract another race of people.

Think about how fukked up that mentality is. That many blk men and women are willing to work hard ONLY when the prize at the end of the race is a white person.
"Oh im gonna get rich and successful and say fukk u to..."
"Oh imma get fine and get me a..."

What if the conversation was "Imma be the best black woman/black man I can be to lead my community and have a great black family b/c my race deserves my best."

Why do some only want to improve on the way out of our community even tho non-blks weren't checking for you on the come up either?
Why? Because deep down many believe others are worth the effort, while those of our own race should settle for us at our average or lower.

It was a strawman argument because it was an argument purported to address and refutre OP's point but instead addresses a flawed interpretation/understanding of OP's point.

OP's point is rather straight up...average black women ain't checking for average black men (whether that's true or not is grounds for discussion in this thread).

Dude failed to countered OP's point because he stated some variation of "average men are lonely because they chase women who are out of their league." That argument was flawed because OP clearly was talking about "average" black men and "average" black women.

So everything you posted that piggybacked off that strawman argument is irrelevant to OP's main point. You further conflated the course of the argument by posting statements like "So everybody is resentful of the best looking mates for being passed up even as they pass up others. Which drives me insane b/c they mad at someone else for doing the same exact shyt they do to others. Lmao! And this is fine but don't be a hypocrite and whine about people expressing their preferences when u doin the same."


To be fair to you though, I don't necessarily disagree with a lot/most of what you posted. It's just that we were talking about 2 + 2 and you gave us calculus.