Brehs / Brehettes that have children (babymama/daddy(s))..are you more open for commitment ?

[Hater Eraser]

Or settling down ?

Do you hope to have a step mom or dad for your kids ?

Is your current child's mother / father not on his / her purpose ?

I look at that Jeezy situation and wonder do we do this to lo-key level up on our childs parent and spite is naturally a byproduct ..

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Or in other situations I know its to get that person off your neck .. esp if its a baby mama tying you up in CS and court / visitation.. but you end up like Future hella babymamas and just on to the next ..


#GMB

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Is the kid considered first in these situations ..like is the person gonna be a good step to my kid(s) or is it all

about the parents ?

 

[I AM WE ARE]

it has to be an understanding involving all parties
communication
boundaries
you can't/dont accept my kids, you can't be a part of my life
you also have to be smart and mature about this, separate jump offs that don't need to meet or be around your child/ren and someone that will be around them.
children pick up on things more than we know.