What I find so mega weird about all this:
I can understand that gay people have to basically stop bigots from yelling at them on the street for holding hands with each other or living together as a couple or whatever things a$$holes do to strangers who are minding their own biz
So maybe there's a need for some level of normalizing it. Just to stop the bullshyt from small minded people.
BUT WHY
Do we need every detail of how gay you are and a progress report on the development of your gayness
"I used to only like guys that look like guys, but now I want a man who identifies as a woman but the woman is butch.. AND I need y'all to create a new name for my scenario.. AND I need to wear a tee shirt that explains my likes in detail"
This is why all this shyt is silly. If a person doesn't like to have sex, why do they need a bumper sticker that tells the world? You don't see straight people walking around with sandwich boards on marching listing all the sex acts they prefer.
We do not need to know any details, gay community. If we see two dudes holding hands we'll just understand that they have every right to do so and we will treat them like all strangers should treat one another: ignore them or if you both are entering a store at the same time, be polite to each other.
Seems simple but, noooo