And the average African-American doesn't? My grandfather was a sharecropper working on land he didn't own, saved up took buses and trains to NJ, put his savings into a small house, worked at a can factory, raised 6 children, with a 5th grade education. My grandmother scrubbed white people's toilets for 40 years.
Fast forward a few decades they raised an Olympian, a Marine, 2 successful accountants (go figure), My father, a laborer who eventually managed an oil rig, and an operations manager for Bell Atlantic before she retired.
And that story isn't uncommon.
I will say this.
One thing Asian people and Africans to some extent do do differently is that they don't rush their kids out the house.
Your anecdote doesn't nullify what I said. I have examples of this within my own immediate family.
but two things that standout are
- Level of education
- Societal expectations of marriage