Cold appoarching white women how do if they're just being friendly or genuinely interested?

KingMalik

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You definitely insinuated that in your statement , unfortunate you have to create a facade just to get white nappy and acknowledgement , you should be pimping them my G .. hate to see a brother go down that route fukk it tho .

It's not a facade.

And you're not getting any woman of value, white or black, with "pimpin".

Stop quoting me.
 

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It's not a facade.

And you're not getting any woman of value, white or black, with "pimpin".

Stop quoting me.
I only pimped white women , the wifing , love and affection is reserved for my nubian queens would never display that kind of disrespect towards them .
 

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white women are generally wack brehs. that unspoken bond with other women of color :blessed:

Living in minnesota its nothing but beckys. I've been with enough to wonder why the fukk nikkas think these byrds are unicorn status and I they NEED to experience one. they shyt bleed and eat just like any other human :yeshrug:

plus I always see brothers with the white bytches that the cacs don't won't smh. If i'm going to be stepping out like that it better be with a becky thats going to make these frat cacs furious not some fat reject.r
 

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I wrote about this in another thread last month...

Basically you just need to take the first step and say hello. From there, pay close attention to body language.

Here is a play by play of a guy who cold approached me and how everything went down.

(Keep in mind I might not be the best example cuz I'm super friendly and love black men...not all women are like me so your results may vary depending on the girl)

@DrX

I just wanted to give you a recap/play by play & update from the story with the dude that randomly approached me at the liquor store.

-dude randomly says hello to me as I'm leavin the liquor store

-I stop and talk with him for a minute

-He gives me his # & tells me to call him later

-I got busy, never called, forgot about it for a minute and then was like :ohhh: I never called that dude...I wonder what he's sayin? :jbhmm:

-I still don't call

-I make a run to a convenience store in my hood. As I'm on my way out dude from the liquor store walks in with some friends. I don't recognize him right away but made very suggestive and deliberate eye contact with him cuz I was attracted to him. Turns out he was in my way, so I apologize and then he's like hey, do you remember me and I'm like :gladbron: the liquor store dude that I was just thinkin of earlier! :blessed:

-I had to run to a friend's and he told me to link up with him after

-He calls, Im busy. I call back, he's busy. I shoot him a late night booty call style text, no answer

-When I wake up he texts back asking me what I'm up to. I tell him I gotta do a few things but that I'll be tanning on my roof in the afternoon & invite him over

-He comes by with a friend, knocks on my door, I answer wearing a bikini, ready to go tan on the roof :myman:

-We smoke a spliff, friend leaves, we immediately start whinin & daggering to dancehall :russ: :dead:

-Within about 5min we start making out. 5min later, we're on our way to my apt. :takedat:

-We have a quality sex session, that I can honestly say was the best sex I've had all summer :ohlawd: :krs: :ahh: :blessed:

It was some real Goldilocks shyt, that D felt just right. :noah:I dunno if it's the same for guys with girl's pussies when sometimes it just feels so good/so right? You guys must be able to feel that too...anyway

-I tell him I'm so glad that we met & bumped into each other again and he tells me it was meant to be :steviej:

See what I'm sayin? shyt is meant to be. You gotta learn to pick up on this stuff and stop brushing off what you might consider to be "coincidences". I'm telling you yo, this shyt is very real! :umad:

Anyway we end out hanging all day, drinkin, smokin, eatin...by evening he's callin me bae :myman:. He even takes a couple selfies of us cuddlin/kissin :gladbron:

We ended up fukkin 3 times and it hasn't even been 24 hours since we first chilled 1 on 1 :leon:

All this because he took a chance and said hello to me. We were literally passing by each other and he said hello and that was it!

I ended up being attracted to him/interested so for sure that helped the situation but he didn't know this and took the random approach route and it worked like gold. Maybe not as immediately as it could have happened but life just randomly brought us back together and it was definitely worth the wait.

That's all it takes sometimes (random approach) and I challenge you to try this even though you're against it. Brush off any rejections you encounter (wasn't meant to be...NEXT!), keep your chin up & you're bound to hit a quality chick eventually.

Can you really live with yourself knowing you could have passed up a really awesome person (or even just awesome sex depending what you're after) just because you were too shy or stubborn to say hello to someone who attracted you?

I can't :yeshrug:

Take more chances, trust me. Put yourself out there and follow your natural attraction. And pay attention to body language too...maybe you just assume she's not interested meanwhile you don't even notice what her body language is telling you.

Now get out there & report back! :ufdup:

I want play by plays, updates & all that! :win:

*EDIT: It's very important to note the other lesson learned in my story: just because she doesn't call doesn't mean she's not interested! There are a percentage of girls like myself that are interested but get busy and forget about shyt.

Hope that helps you in some way.

Good luck! :salute:
 

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See I told you; nikka just proved my point. You have to be a token or a safe nikka:russ:. Show her that your not like those stereotypes ie. loud, uneducated and shyt :mjlol:. I was just joking around when I typed that up; but I was right :russ:

:brehwow2:
 

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It's funny the only negative comment you've made about women in this thread are about black women. Why is that :jbhmm:

The comment was about white women crying rape, and I pointed out that black women do that as well. How exactly is that negative?
 

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:mjlol: at being a "safe token nikka" because you're cultured and educated. Jesus.


Same way you call someone "a token negro", they can call you a ghetto, ratchet, belligerent dumb ass.


And just to give you a mental image.....a guy like Charles Michael Davis could fukk 1,000 white bytches if he wanted.....Because he doesn't carry himself like a ghetto street nikka. And :mjlol: at you thinking professional black women from good families would want anything less than that either....

You a c00n and don't even know it :brehwow:

Since you have to prove you're cultured and educated, does she have to prove she'll stick around once her family disowns her :mjpls:
 
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