damn my bro is divorcing his wife because she changed after they had their baby

[beenz]

It's all about getting jealous of your own offspring

https://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_detailpage&v=m-XKjUTIpu8#t=191

jealous of his own baby infant

 

[Kane1]

You young cats out there learn from my missteps..... Date a chick for at least 3-5 years. Get to know that lady and makes sure y'all been through some hard times.

If she's the right one and you married the lady then stay married for at least 5 years before even bring up that baby talk. All Im saying is make sure you STRESS TEST YOUR GIRL BREH!!!

Don't make that costly mistake

 

[LeVraiPapi]

Lol at being an insecure child because you want to spend time alone with your wife. I guess there no babysitters where y'all live and all of your parents and relatives who could give y'all some time alone are dead Women love to use a baby as a crutch and it's not cool. Baby be 5 years old and she's still neglecting your azz. Enjoy your sexless marriage

We have a 9 month old and my wife doesn't want anyone watching the baby but us. Heck I am happier to see my son crawl to my feet and say dada with his arms up more than my wife hugging me and fixing a plate. Some of you guys here are weak mentally but wanna play big man games. Marriage is not easy but if the 2 of you have good communication and willing to compromise for your kids, things go a lot smoother. I can't imagine what kinda man is more concerned about having see than taking care of his seed. Damn

 

[LadySimone]

hes like she shows no affection and always is with the baby. the baby has consumed her life


damn another one down the drain...they only been married for a year and some change to


thats why i always say , have the baby first, see how she is in her motherly roles, then if she passes , then u can marry her.

nikkas dont listen to me when i talk

now he gotta learn the hard way

Have the baby first? Are you an idiot?

 

[LadySimone]

He could be a man and work with her. But then this thread wouldnt be made.

 

[GoPro]

the paternity of the child is not in question, but this mans crushed ego is.
how weak can your ego be if not only a child, but an infant, your own flesh and blood is a threat to it?
he clearly isnt stepping up as a dad if she "SPENDS ALL HER TIME'' with the baby.
if he were pitching in that would be damn near impossible.

It's not? As far as I'm concerned, the paternity of every child is uncertain unless the baby looks just like the man claiming it. I find it telling that yall consider it out of the realm of possibilities that this chick could just be hustling this guy for a place to stay, as if women never deceitfully have one man raise another's baby.

Oh I see...you're one of those who think sex is just a duty to a man and we really shouldn't be gratified too?

The fukk? If she isn't gratified then she needs to allow that man some side action. There's something wrong if your wife no longer wants to be intimate with you. After a freaking year those bushes would be fully stocked

 

[Malik]

breh, you're disturbed.

Say whatever you want, ma.

Read the comments on this article. Seems like a lot of men share my disturbed view

http://www.cnn.com/2010/HEALTH/03/29/sex.childbirth.pregnancy/

 

[LadySimone]

Some of the responses to this is bringing a tear to my eye and some moisture to my knickers. Stellar advice brehs.

 

[skeetsinternal]

its her fault

 

[Goat poster]

I remember the fear of SIDS very well. Jumping up in the middle of the night, sitting on the side of the bed to hear breathing, getting up to make sure the baby hasn't turned their head over to where they can't breathe or even checking to make sure the baby doesn't spit up and choke on it.

Even now, more mothers are breast feeding which means depending on how that baby feels, they may not want that bottle in the middle of the night, and no matter how tired mommy is she has to get up to feed the baby.

People with minimal experience with kids are quick to dismiss the work it takes to care for a child and maintain a marriage. Its not easy but if husband/wife works it out together then it can be managed.

So those who say "Oh, its easy!" Or, "She's been at home all day with the baby, now she doesn't want to suck my dikk" Holla at me when you spent a few weeks going thru the in's and out's of raising a newborn-6month old.

YEP
My wife breastfed for almost a whole year, and would pump so I could feed the baby sometimes and give her a break..

Then My son got to a point where he ain't want the bottle no more only mommies big jugs

I felt bad for wifey cause my son would wake up almost every other hour to eat all night like

shyt was skressful breh, wifey is a soldier though.

 

[SanchoPanda]

Seems like your brother wasn't ready to be a dad. My sister had a similar situation with her punk ass baby daddy. They are divorced now. My nephews don't even like him. Oldest one doesn't go with his dad anymore since it's his choice now. Youngest is 8 and still has to to go with him on his days. So make sure he knows what he is doing and wants.

The sad part is my oldest nephew said he wouldn't care if his dad died because I've been more of a father than his dad ever has. While that should make me feel good it didn't. I want my nephew to had a dad in his life and to have those same memories I have of my dad.

 

[Cabbage Patch]

How do you not love your women more after she births your child

Because she's not loving you more. She ignores he exists. May even - by her actions - show she's annoyed he's around. You don't have to expect a woman to put you first, because that time is past. The baby has to come first for both of you.

But some women take it too far. They never loved the man, and now that they got the baby, that lack of love shows through subconscious actions. Both parties will have to work at falling in love with each other all over again. That's marriage. You have to work through these things.

 

[beanz]

I'd like to know the status of some of you males commenting on this thread.

Married?

Married with a child(ren)?

Girlfriend with a child/(ren)?

Single?

Single with a child(dren)?

If I've left out any category, I apologize, no offense meant, just curious.

u forgot the most important question..

age..

some of the dudes commenting are just immature as fukk.

 

[Cabbage Patch]

who wears rubbers with their spouse???

If you don't want a kid yet, people who are serious about their family planning.

 

[beenz]

If you don't want a kid yet, people who are serious about their family planning.

she should have hit that birth control. only bachelor's wear condoms.