just trying to see why black women don't go for more educated well spoken men while they are in their prime.......is this the reason?
does being/having the image of a thug/playa mean being straight in the black women community and educated means you could be gay?
not that this is true but im asking yall is this the perception that our women have of black men?
As an educated brother in his prime, I gotta say you're doing something wrong as fukk. 100% of the black women I've met over the last 5 years have tried to give me the ass. The only exceptions were arms-length associations (girlfriend's sisters, etc), and this one nasty old biddy at the job

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Maybe you just don't know your worth on the dating market? If you're black, attractive, have a career, no ex wives, no kids, no diseases, a lil bit of money, you cannot lose.