@marcuz is right because...
me for example, i've been called out by my mom and even my current for this.
i used to be like

because I only date black women ......

BUT............ checking features along with skin shows much more.
1 bm is darker brown but looks str8 up hispanicish... hair is cacerish , features are cacerish, and speaks spanish.
other bm is lighter..... but even with 2 black parents i guess looks mixed .... because so many people in her town in Jamaica are mixed with Irish that she looks a certain way.
the coli.com calls it a Negro cheat code. The women act a certain way and haven't even had to deal with a typical 'black girl' experience and have even been treated better by some brainwashed black men .
it's a very slick thing to do, and I have done it without realizing. (examining 50 other women choices... I have a 88% rating of using the cheat code)

I think that's what he's talking about. I only used my own situations, so it wont seem like i'm soapboxing on the shyt.