(Females) If you have a height preference........

CinnaSlim

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Its like me turning down a black girl because


"Hey sorry can't date you cause I won't be able to play with your hair when were cuddling"

You don't think that sounds selfish as fukk
:comeon: I already stated I have dated shorter men.

Why shouldn't I be selfish when considering a partner. Isn't it about me? It's my decision who I want to be with.

You can turn down whoever you want. Guys turn down girls because they are rocking a fade or wearing a weave, oh sorry... I mean "hairhat".
 

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I had sex with one a year ago, going on two you nikkas need to
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:pacspit:Your puss has been tainted with that wet dog and bologna-Mayo scent. You're bushes status:camby:
 

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Grown women with this complaint are disgustingly insecure and unhappy with the skin their in.
If yo make it to high school and still can't get chosen, the problem is you.
No one wants to be with anyone with self esteem issues.
It's compounded if your facial symmetry, BMI, or attitude is trash, which is where more often than not, lies the problem.
Basically trying to shame people into your ways rarely works outside of a simp, family, and or closest friends. That shyt ain't going to work on people with no connection to you for the most part.

Everything I'm saying makes complete sense.I'm not insecure about my skin tone WHAT so ever.& My 16 year old neice is cute who gets told "you're pretty for a dark skin girl," by some of the stupid boys her age.You say I should just not care but NO,I'm going to care.I don't want my neice or any other little black girl growing up with a complex about her skin.Something in this so called "black community," NEEDS to change.Not giving a f*ck is not a solution for me.NOPE.I'm going to give a f*ck.
You go right ahead and continue to be insecure its your life do what you feel. It won't help though but keep on keeping on. That's what young people say. I've heard girls when I was at age say they wanted to have babies with my man cause he got green eyes and "good" hair. That's just what young people do but your grown I'm assuming still worried about shyt a lot of young people say that they usually stop saying as they get older? Again do you. Some of y'all have nothing else to fight for so y'all take up stupid crusades like this one. The crusade basically comes down to you/your niece wanting get dikked down by every shade of man and have them think you are not only sexy, but intelligent and all that too and no other women can fit that mold. Really this shyt is all about selfishness but go ahead use your niece and lie and say its about something else.
 

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:comeon: I already stated I have dated shorter men.

Why shouldn't I be selfish when considering a partner. Isn't it about me? It's my decision who I want to be with.

You can turn down whoever you want. Guys turn down girls because they are rocking a fade or wearing a weave, oh sorry... I mean "hairhat".


For the record, I wasn't criticizing you. I just wanted to understand your reasoning/thought-process.

Do you, boo boo...
 

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:comeon: I already stated I have dated shorter men.

Why shouldn't I be selfish when considering a partner. Isn't it about me? It's my decision who I want to be with.

You can turn down whoever you want. Guys turn down girls because they are rocking a fade or wearing a weave, oh sorry... I mean "hairhat".
Why can't you just wear high heels even if he was the same height As you





Ohh nvm....you don't want your friends or family to look at y'all sideaways :comeon:
 

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@WHIPPEDCream maybe the theories about you being a white troll are true :patrice:Considering how @GiGi was exposed recently

If that's really you in your avi. Then, I find it hard to believe a young lady as good looking as that could have such low self esteem. Dark skin chicks of your caliber are usually not this butthurt about colorism and have no problem getting men. Unless you were one of those ugly duckling type kids who blossomed late. They tend to internalize the treatment they got while they were young and do not carry the confidence of a typical good looking person.

Do you live on the West Coast?(Colorism tends to be extreme over there)

Everything I said is true & yet I come across as having low self esteem? :what:Nothing about me reads "low self esteem."When y'all complain about racism & how black men are treated in this society is it low self esteem?Colorism is an issue we discussed in my black feminist course.I have NO problem getting any man & I have never complained about not having one.& if so show me the receipts??This is what I mean when I said black women issues can not be discussed on here.

I live on the east & I would consider myself a very confident woman.If I wasn't I believe I would be off bleaching some where.
 

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Basically trying to shame people into your ways rarely works outside of a simp, family, and or closest friends. That shyt ain't going to work on people with no connection to you for the most part.

You go right ahead and continue to be insecure its your life do what you feel. It won't help though but keep on keeping on. That's what young people say. I've heard girls when I was at age say they wanted to have babies with my man cause he got green eyes and "good" hair. That's just what young people do but your grown I'm assuming still worried about shyt a lot of young people say that they usually stop saying as they get older? Again do you. Some of y'all have nothing else to fight for so y'all take up stupid crusades like this one. The crusade basically comes down to you/your niece wanting get dikked down by every shade of man and have them think you are not only sexy, but intelligent and all that too and no other women can fit that mold. Really this shyt is all about selfishness but go ahead use your niece and lie and say its about something else.

Prime example the issues black women face can not be discussed on here.You get accused of having low self esteem,white,etc.& Please do not talk about my 16 YEAR OLD niece in that way. :what: You are disgusting.
 

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For the record, I wasn't criticizing you. I just wanted to understand your reasoning/thought-process.

Do you, boo boo...
I understand that. I don't understand why people are asking me why I exclude men outside my preferred range when I stated i haven't.
The only thing I addressed to you was the smilie. The rest was for Malcolm.

Why can't you just wear high heels even if he was the same height As you





Ohh nvm....you don't want your friends or family to look at y'all sideaways :comeon:

Maybe, it's because it's what I prefer... Idk, just maybe.
You have to be trolling because aren't you tall?

Why do some guys prefer short women or thick/fat women or have fetishes. I'm sure it's not to impress other people. It's what pleases them.
 
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