How do you make friends as an adult

AtomicUse

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You're really only going to make assosociates as an adult, since adult friendships don't really happen as adults have learned to be very guarded people. They've had a friend or several friends who have been shady, and they've learned to be wiser in who they even associate with, much less become friends with.

But, they come about through your hobbies and your routines, just like friends. Just keep things cordial and be cautious and on the lookout for the bullshyt. :ufdup:
 

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Don't mind these weirdos..ignoring the value of new friends who are a potential source of future networking opportunities.

Go do a meet up

Find out your hobbies or start learning about different ones and meeting new people around that

Volunteer at an animal shelter or for the homeless. Looks good on a resume

But most important leave your house...that's the first step
 

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If you don't have friends as an adult you're most likely a weirdo
 

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all my friends i lost contact with

they either married or live and work in other states

and at this point in my life it's basically work, bills and taking care of my older parents..

i only talk to a few people at work but nothing like hey let's go out and shyt..

my neighbors don't say shyt unless they ask for a dollar or two..

plus u in a day and age where people stay in the house on the internet on dating sites and other social media to meet people. if you black and older and you don't drink or smoke and there really isn't any meeting clubs u kind of fukk
 
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all my friends i lost contact with

they either married or live and work in other states

and at this point in my life it's basically work, bills and taking care of my older parents..

i only talk to a few people at work but nothing like hey let's go out and shyt..

my neighbors don't say shyt unless they ask for a dollar or two..

plus u in a day and age where people stay in the house on the internet on dating sites and other social media to meet people. if you black and older and you don't drink or smoke and there really isn't any meeting clubs u kind of fukk

You've got a girl right :mjcry:
 

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You're really only going to make assosociates as an adult, since adult friendships don't really happen as adults have learned to be very guarded people. They've had a friend or several friends who have been shady, and they've learned to be wiser in who they even associate with, much less become friends with.
 
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