Fatherhood won't change shyt if you're broken, lost, or a piece of shyt. You'll just be broken, lost or a piece of shyt with a kid.
Not everyone is made to be in a relationship, have a spouse or have kids.
Some people just aren't a people person and that can include their own family (parents/siblings). That doesn't mean they came from a broken home or poverty or those other people are pieces of shyt, some people just aren't people persons. Dealing with or working with others just doesn't mesh with their personality. And that doesn't mean that the person is a piece of shyt either.
I know this is the coli where a single mom is worse than the devil, but you childless single wonders should do it atleast once. Especially those who 'think' they want to be married and have kids.
There's definitely a bond between your own biological child (unless you're a narcissist or a sociopath). Some people just aren't meant to procreate. And even more should never ever be in a relationship but there's a level of self awareness and self actuality one must have to be able to acknowledge and admit this.
You don't have to have kids, or get married before you discover "I've made a huge mistake" "I hate this shyt..."