To be honest, I used to didn't understand women but its getting better as I age, date/befriend/co-work with more of them.
We make everything gender specific, but I've learned that isn't always the case. Yes women GENERALLY are more emotional but u got some emotional azz men out here...and I'm not talking about feminine acting men or homosexuals. Some heterosexual men always in their feelings. People are people and we are human...we all have strengths and weaknesses. We like to talk about others but not understand why they do what they do. People also fail to realize that people are complex, everything isn't always black and white, and we all have different journeys in life and different backgrounds, families, and social conditioning. We all aren't the same and don't think the same.
As far as women, I used to think most women were nice, nurturing, compassionate and supportive growing up and it was in women's nature to do that and to be a man's backbone. I've learned that isn't true at all. Some women out here are savages and some women just ain't shyt. I've learned that both genders have their shytty people.
I think growing up in larger families with both genders will help people understand the different gender dynamics as well as understand other people as a whole. When u live with people, u understand them much more. Yes u can befriend folks and attend school with them, but living with them u can fully understand people much more.
We make everything gender specific, but I've learned that isn't always the case. Yes women GENERALLY are more emotional but u got some emotional azz men out here...and I'm not talking about feminine acting men or homosexuals. Some heterosexual men always in their feelings. People are people and we are human...we all have strengths and weaknesses. We like to talk about others but not understand why they do what they do. People also fail to realize that people are complex, everything isn't always black and white, and we all have different journeys in life and different backgrounds, families, and social conditioning. We all aren't the same and don't think the same.
As far as women, I used to think most women were nice, nurturing, compassionate and supportive growing up and it was in women's nature to do that and to be a man's backbone. I've learned that isn't true at all. Some women out here are savages and some women just ain't shyt. I've learned that both genders have their shytty people.
I think growing up in larger families with both genders will help people understand the different gender dynamics as well as understand other people as a whole. When u live with people, u understand them much more. Yes u can befriend folks and attend school with them, but living with them u can fully understand people much more.
I have now attained the 3rd lowest level which is the mental plane, brought on by a new friend I met who I believe is on the Buddhic plane (or maybe we'll attain it together).
