In situations where you don't think a certain person(s), whether it's a ex, a "friend", or someone you associate with during a weekly basis, treats you in a way you want to be treated, I don't see a problem having little to no contact at all. However, I would say I haven't always thought like this, there were some people that would rather not continue talking to me. For years I have learned that many people do this, but when I tell other people that's what I do, they look at me strange.
I have a cac friend, middle school friend, that can't get over his ex-girlfriend of like 3-5 years, and he'll tell me how she's been dealing with depression and during their final stages, she'll treat him like shyt and say harsh things to him. Almost everyday he'll call me on the phone late at night about his problems. He once asked me what I've done in a breakup and I told him that I straight up stop talking to them. He said I was weird for doing that. Can The Coli tell me what's the big issue?
tl;dr : I've cut contact with lots of people in my life and I don't see the problem. Why do people think Im weird for doing so?
I have a cac friend, middle school friend, that can't get over his ex-girlfriend of like 3-5 years, and he'll tell me how she's been dealing with depression and during their final stages, she'll treat him like shyt and say harsh things to him. Almost everyday he'll call me on the phone late at night about his problems. He once asked me what I've done in a breakup and I told him that I straight up stop talking to them. He said I was weird for doing that. Can The Coli tell me what's the big issue?
tl;dr : I've cut contact with lots of people in my life and I don't see the problem. Why do people think Im weird for doing so?
