I dumped/got dumped brehs & brehettes! :damn:

[NerdBird]

Sounds like you're dramatic

 

[a murda]

that's because you are built like the size of this house

 

[Chill]

You should learn from your past mistakes, once you always remind yourself to chill you won't ever run into that issue again.

 

[Ooh Marty]

It just didn't work out.

Y'all still gon fukk tho.

if i cant be with him, im not gon let him fukk no matter how good his sex is.

 

[Ezigbo Nwanyi]

Sounds like my situation a month ago. Chicago nikkas aint shyt

 

[O.T.I.S.]

yeah i dont want to go into details but he was going thru a bunch of shyt and I was there for him a lot but I wish I was smart enough to put my personal bullshyt on the back burner to ease off the stress for him.

U live and learn tho.

And he MIGHT be back.

That shyt is up to you really. My ex tried to come back but not hard enough. She wanted me to chase her and I'm like

So she found someone else to fukk with and again, I'm like . shyt sucks, but it's probably for the best. I can't be with someone that's inconsiderate, self-centered, and spoiled..,

If he's anything like me then he probably feels the same, especially when he got some real shyt going on. If you're anything like my ex then you need to tighten up if you want him back

 

[andre patton]

marty kaan got dumped? musta been a pretty sturdy truck




sorry if someone already made an appropriate fat joke...i dont have time to go thru the whole thread at the moment

I called the nikka from a different number and another chick picked up brehs!!!

damn he really gave zero fukks about you. even when i dont care about a bytch...i at least stay on relatively friendly terms in case i need to have sex with her a few months down the line.

 

[Ooh Marty]

And he MIGHT be back.

That shyt is up to you really. My ex tried to come back but not hard enough. She wanted me to chase her and I'm like

So she found someone else to fukk with and again, I'm like . shyt sucks, but it's probably for the best. I can't be with someone that's inconsiderate, self-centered, and spoiled..,

If he's anything like me then he probably feels the same, especially when he got some real shyt going on. If you're anything like my ex then you need to tighten up if you want him back

i know that i was inconsiderate when i sent him that break up text but im far from spoiled and self centered.

I don't want to jump to conclusions but as of now, im pretty sure its over between us.

I will be updating you guys on a bi-daily basis for those who care to know the final outcome.

 

[Ooh Marty]

marty kaan got dumped? musta been a pretty sturdy truck




sorry if someone already made an appropriate fat joke...i dont have time to go thru the whole thread at the moment



damn he really gave zero fukks about you. even when i dont care about a bytch...i at least stay on relatively friendly terms in case i need to have sex with her a few months down the line.

Why u gotta crack fat jokes when I'm sharing something very real and private to u guys on here?

And you're right...he gave no fukks about me since he had another chick answer the phone (even if it was his little sister)

 

[Ooh Marty]

Sounds like my situation a month ago. Chicago nikkas aint shyt

what happened???

i need another woman to relate to plus with u being from chicago...u know how these nikkas are out here.

 

[O.T.I.S.]

i know that i was inconsiderate when i sent him that break up text but im far from spoiled and self centered.

I don't want to jump to conclusions but as of now, im pretty sure its over between us.

I will be updating you guys on a bi-daily basis for those who care to know the final outcome.

When you WROTE the letter but what about before that?

And how do you think it looked for him? Put yourself in his shoes... If he was going through some shyt and all you did was nag, criticize, and complain.. And THEN you broke up with him (via text) he's probably like


Not responding was the gentle way of throwing you too the bushes because he probably actually care about your feelings to not say how he really feels... Or just don't want to be bothered with dumb shyt right now

 

[Ooh Marty]

When you WROTE the letter but what about before that?

And how do you think it looked for him? Put yourself in his shoes... If he was going through some shyt and all you did was nag, criticize, and complain.. And THEN you broke up with him (via text) he's probably like

i took back the break up right after it tho...my confused ass

and thats basically how i came to the realization after everything happened.

He was still letting me know how he feel about me before i sent the text, he called me twice back to back when i was at work 2 hrs before i sent the text. Now that I think about it, something else more fukked up mustve happened to him which is why he called me and with me sending him the break up text, it mustve sent him thru the roof.

I feel so bad right now...

even though he was going thru a lot of shyt, he didnt take it out on me like i did with him. Ive been going thru some things as well (family, friends, and work) and i basically took it out on him.

No matter what he been going thru, he made sure to make me happy......

 

[Ezigbo Nwanyi]

what happened???

i need another woman to relate to plus with u being from chicago...u know how these nikkas are out here.

Lets just say similar to your situation he was super in to me, I didnt want a relationship, since he consistently spent time with me and we bonded I felt the righteous thing was to be his girlfriend. He ended having an illness in the family and started committing his time with that. I was fine with it until I felt that he was letting our relationship fall by the wayside and that since he had time for other shyt he should have time for me. I even on multiple occasions asked him did he want to break things off and commit to that, he said no. One day I called him and he didnt answer his phone ( mind you this is someone who picks up my phone call on 1 ring)...that week he was acting funny so I had suspicions. So I left hima hot text message and he called me the next minute saying I jump to conclusions and what not. We go back and forth on the phone then he says well maybe we shouldnt be together I said okay you should of told me that before I dropped the 3 nikkas I was talking to before we made it official. He got mad and I was like its over right??? Then hung up.

 

[O.T.I.S.]

i took back the break up right after it tho...my confused ass

and thats basically how i came to the realization after everything happened.

He was still letting me know how he feel about me before i sent the text, he called me twice back to back when i was at work 2 hrs before i sent the text. Now that I think about it, something else more fukked up mustve happened to him which is why he called me and with me sending him the break up text, it mustve sent him thru the roof.

I feel so bad right now...

Well "what ifs" aren't gonna help you out right now, that's the insecurity talking again. If you don't know for sure the you can't jump to conclusions...


But you should probably talk to him. Like let him know whenever he's ready because if he's like me he was probably like

Also admitting you fukked up and was being insecure and inconsiderate could help too

 

[Ooh Marty]

Lets just say similar to your situation he was super in to me, I didnt want a relationship, since he consistently spent time with me and we bonded I felt the righteous thing was to be his girlfriend. He ended having an illness in the family and started committing his time with that. I was fine with it until I felt that he was letting our relationship fall by the wayside and that since he had time for other shyt he should have time for me. I even on multiple occasions asked him did he want to break things off and commit to that, he said no. One day I called him and he didnt answer his phone ( mind you this is someone who picks up my phone call on 1 ring)...that week he was acting funny so I had suspicions. So I left hima hot text message and he called me the next minute saying I jump to conclusions and what not. We go back and forth on the phone then he says well maybe we shouldnt be together I said okay you should of told me that before I dropped the 3 nikkas I was talking to before we made it official. He got mad and I was like its over right??? Then hung up.

GIRL WHY I DROPPED ALL MY HOES!! I had a starting 5 roster, two of whom ive been talking to on and off FOR ALMOST A YEAR! But I felt something for this dude that i wasnt feeling for none of them.

My crazy ass friends told me i was stupid to cut off my hoes for one dude I just met...but they just didnt know the feelings i had developed for him...