I finished school, am currently not selling drugs, i've never shot anybody and don't hit women

[Hiphoplives4eva]

I have a bachelor's, dont wear weave, dont have a big butt and dont work at mcdonalds or walmart

I dont have a chance with a black man do i?

You should probably look for a white man friend...

 

[Vilified not verified]

Should I add that my dikk is under 8 inches aswell?

 

[Taadow]

you could get a fine quality black woman (or any race for that matter) as long as you preserve your dignity and principles. whatever you do, do it cause you believe in it, not because you think it'll get you something.

If your whole attitude and vibe is "well i'm a model citizen and putting in all this work so i'm entitled to get this" then you'll have trouble with women (and life in general) because that's not how life works. Women will feel like you're living this lifestyle just to be looked at as a good boy (fear of being outcasted, and that fear is not attractive to them) and not out of conviction.

While we're at it - this goes for the ladies, too.

Nobody "deserves" love, or any variation of it...people choose to give such to you at their own behest.
You have to make them want to.

And anybody can attract somebody, but they're only gonna want to stay if they respect you some way....
they're not gonna respect you just because you have a decent job, a degree, or ish like that you put
on a resume. They have to feel you are 'bout something.

 

[semtex]

You want THAT for all of your hard work?

 

[Jone2three45]

As a black man that went to an HBCU, what the threadstarter is saying has a modicum of truth to it, as i was also a straight laced nerdy cat that constantly got passed over for the supreme thug bball type. Fast forward 10 years and ya boy is doing it big, meanwhile nearly 60% of the women i used to know back in college all still single, and a few married white boys.

That being said, i still ended up finding an marrying a smart, educted, sister without kids. If your serious about finding them they're out there. Whilst they're in the minority i'll admit, they're out there.

 

[StickStickly]

I don't stand a chance at getting with a fine young black woman do I? Why it gotta be that way brehs?

What's your face look like tho?

 

[JBoy]

even though this is a troll thread many so called good guys/girls tend out to be completely god awful people outside of their facade.

 

[No_bammer_weed]

Op definitely got dumped, or played, by a black chick, and came on here to vent his spleen

 

[Turbulent]

on the low, i always thought Sally Field could get it even when she got older...

 

[↓R↑LYB]

@Tony_Bromo

nikka reason you can't get a bytch because your ass is LMAO

I can tell by your obese ass hands fat nikka

 

[semtex]

Just shout "hallelujah" breh They'll flock to you. Then say "I loves me some you, and I loves me some jesus"

Works twice as well if you're lightskinned.

 

[↓R↑LYB]

how severly do I need to beat a chick for word to get around that i am indeed "that nikka"?

Only thing you need to beat is that hunger demon that's taken over your life your overweight b*stard

 

[Luke Cage]

nikka reason you can't get a bytch because your ass is LMAO

I can tell by your obese ass hands fat nikka

i was about to say that.
and his nails are brown super dark skinned nikka.
we know the real reason you aint getting any p*ssy

 

[HiphopRelated]

i was about to that.
and his nails are brown super dark skinned nikka.
we know the real reason you aint getting any p*ssy

nikka got a neck on his neck...cotdamn

 

[BlvdBrawler]

I don't stand a chance at getting with a fine young black woman do I? Why it gotta be that way brehs?

Of course you do, just not till your mid-late 20's.

If you manage to make it to your 30's w/o kids (and if you're somewhat attractive) you will feast on a level beyond your imagination.

Literally, all I have to do is say, "Hello, my name is _____" and the way these black women's faces light up at the sight of a genuinely good brotha who's not trying to spit game or come at them with "hey ma" is just .

You have to think about how many scrubs, losers, jerks, a$$holes, playas, broke nikkas, and deadbeat fathers are out there. The competition really isn't shyt, breh. Just be yourself (cliche but it really is important), be confident, be about your business, and I guarantee you will eat and eat and eat and eat and eat. You'll never wanna get married.