If Your Partner Of 20 Years Cheated On You Once 15 Years Ago...

[SheWantTheD]

Let's say they slipped up that one and only time, and haven't cheated since in the last 15 years y'all have been together..

Would you want to know and would you leave them because of it or stay?

Be honest.

 

[Sonny Bonds]

Who did she cheat on me with? I'd be more pissed if it was someone within our social circle. Do we have children? And what are my options? Are there smart and attractive women around who I'd be able to jump ship to easily? How old am I at this point in my life? So many questions...

 

[SheWantTheD]

Who did she cheat on me with? I'd be more pissed if it was someone within our social circle. Do we have children? And what are my options? Are there smart and attractive women around who I'd be able to jump ship to easily? How old am I at this point in my life? So many questions...

ANSWER THE MOTHERfukkING QUESTION NIGGUH!

Nah I'm just playing... so I'm assuming you would want to know that they cheated? Some people don't want to know, especially if they put in that much time in the relationship, have kids together etc.

As for the answers to your questions.. that's up to you.

 

[EndDomination]

How would I possibly know whether or not they hadn't cheated since?
It seems incredibly unreasonable to have that kind of faith in someone who had been lying to me for years.
I would leave them, even if it meant I'd wasted decades of my life.
A lot of people would probably murder their spouse, I value my freedom far to go to that extreme.

 

[Champagne Kudo]

I'd stay

Spoiler

only If she can get Ashanti to fukk me and make it fair

 

[Abayo]

He's been lying for 15 years
he's gotta go

 

[SheWantTheD]

I'd stay

Spoiler

only If she can get Ashanti to fukk me and make it fair

So you would want to know that they cheated?

 

[SheWantTheD]

He's been lying for 15 years
he's gotta go

Y'all been together for 20 years tho.

 

[King Poetic]

I just have to

 

[Emoryal]

Y'all been together for 20 years tho.

And they cheated therefore they gotta go.

 

[GreenGhxst]

15 years ago and its nobody I know, no I don't want to know unless our marriage is already struggling so I have a good reason to leave

 

[Sonny Bonds]

ANSWER THE MOTHERfukkING QUESTION NIGGUH!

How you gonna start the thread and not answer your own question though?

I'd wanna know, if these people are still in our lives. Because I need to know who she cheated with and who knew about it and didn't tell me.

I don't want to know if: it was 15 years ago, but we're happy and faithful now and as long as the guy she cheated with isn't in our lives anymore. And anyone else who knows that she cheated isn't in our lives anymore either.

 

[Detroit Wave]

 

[shynewhatts]

Let's say they slipped up that one and only time, and haven't cheated since in the last 15 years y'all have been together..

Would you want to know and would you leave them because of it or stay?

Be honest.

Hell nah itd the principle of that shyt 15 years of lies ? Makes u wonder what else they been hiding shyt. After all that time u been faithful sticking round with the same p*ssy just to find out they gave that shyt away. My ass is leaving without them knowing im playin cool then taking everything and starting a new life chasing young p*ssy you know finding a broad with daddy issues who dont mind some wrinkly balls and utilizing the fukk out my viagra

Holla if u hear me

 

[SheWantTheD]

How you gonna start the thread and not answer your own question though?

I'd wanna know, if these people are still in our lives. Because I need to know who she cheated with and who knew about it and didn't tell me.

I don't want to know if: it was 15 years ago, but we're happy and faithful now and as long as the guy she cheated with isn't in our lives anymore. And anyone else who knows that she cheated isn't in our lives anymore either.

I really don't know. If we had children, a home together, everything going well I'd probably stay for them. I don't know for sure what would happen though. Maybe I'd leave for a couple months, get my head together and go back. I feel as if it would slowly eat away at me, I don't know. Trust will be gone also.