At this stage in my life
1. if I don't want a relationship I'm not going out on a date, I don't go out to "fill a void" or to show I still got it, I go out to deem if she is worthy of being wifed
2. I'd never sleep with a woman that early, hell i'm very cautious who I even sleep with for that matter
3. I've had women offer me sex, trips, spend the night but if I wasn't feeling them the answer has always been NO.
4. I don't use people, like I said you could search the whole world and could not locate one person I've ever used.
These are all interesting bullet points, and I commend you for your principles but my question remains unanswered. So I'll ask again: When you establish parameters with a woman and she tries to cross those indirectly of her own volition only to naturally find disappointment, would that mean you used her?