This has to be the most insecure post I've ever read on this board..and that's saying a lot.
I've been on both sides of the fence.....some people just don't want to drink, it has nothing to do with "handling" booze. Some people don't need booze to feel good, get out of their shell..or to "relax"
If you still need to get "fukked up" to have confidence or get out of your shell......... who's truly the beta one?
The fact that this bothers you SOOO much just sounds like you're mad that people can be outgoing, social, and do the things you want to do while being completely sober..while you need to be drunk just to muster up the courage to say what you really feel eye to eye and face to face.
Cowardly..
Tsk tsk tsk