Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[sixsixtwo]

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[Malik]

Oops..

I left the love of my life because I thought I could do better. Now I'm childless and alone at 42 | Mail Online

Why on Earth would she agree to do this article....she looks so damn pathetic.

 

[Blacsmiff]

Why on Earth would should agree to do this article....she looks so damn pathetic.

Selfpity makes a person wanna share the pain with the rest of the world in the hope of being consoled and understood. shyt is really eating her up inside. She knows she's gonna die a miserable, lonely woman. Probably turned her back on old friends and family too while she was chasing money and dikk.

 

[Scustin Trillberlake]

Oops..

I left the love of my life because I thought I could do better. Now I'm childless and alone at 42 | Mail Online

 

[Cory MBA]

Selfpity makes a person wanna share the pain with the rest of the world in the hope of being consoled and understood. shyt is really eating her up inside. She knows she's gonna die a miserable, lonely woman. Probably turned her back on old friends and family too while she was chasing money and dikk.

I am witnessing someone doing this to herself right now....its sad. How can you win by doing your loved ones dirty?

 

[Huellz Santana]

you didnt connect with her, you didnt really like her. why waste more of your life being with someone youre not feeling when you could be out doing something better with your time? lifes short, dont trip over the shyt you DONT like

youre right man.

its just that when the night comes and things get quiet you start wondering.

oh well. time to accomplish my dreams.

i think my biggest problem is knowing that I had a girl that would do whatever for me. even when we're not compatible, the way these harlots are today, its good to have one that has your back.​

 

[Action Jackson]

I hear more stories of woman cheating on their man then I hear men cheating on their women. Women (in general) can't even be loyal to their best friend, why do you expect them to be loyal to you? I'd say 65% of the male population today is loyal to their girl, and its getting better. I'd say about 20% of the females are loyal to their man, and its getting worse.

If you get a good one breh, treat her like gold.. Thats if there's any good ones left.

 

[sfgiants]

I hear more stories of woman cheating on their man then I hear men cheating on their women. Women (in general) can't even be loyal to their best friend, why do you expect them to be loyal to you? I'd say 65% of the male population today is loyal to their girl, and its getting better. I'd say about 20% of the females are loyal to their man, and its getting worse.

If you get a good one breh, treat her like gold.. Thats if there's any good ones left.

word you'll hear it from girls all the time, talkin hella sht behind their friends backs then in person its all love.. they treat dudes the same.. its all "omg i love u baby our anniversary coming up <3 " then 2 days later they're massaging another man's mushroom tip with their tonsils

im not saying men are saints, i frankly dont care what men do because i get into relationships with women. but i guarantee most women are more likely to cheat on their bf/husband than most men are to betray their barber and get their haircut by another dude

 

[Liquid]

Oops..

I left the love of my life because I thought I could do better. Now I'm childless and alone at 42 | Mail Online

Most guys will experience something similar to this in their lifetime. Maybe never get as far as engagement, but definitely something we can relate to. To be honest I am surprised he didn't change his number immediately after she kept trying to keep in touch...you have to cut that off immediately if you are completely over her.

 

[Liquid]

Why on Earth would she agree to do this article....she looks so damn pathetic.

she probably needed to get it out. It clearly has been eating away at her and the release and possibly giving a guidance to young females probably comforts her. It's a depressing ass story and in those pictures you can tell by her body language that she is is defeated and looks lost in her life.

People really need to realize that you really only have a few chances at true love and happiness. When that time/person comes you better try your best not to eff it up, because if you do and the person decides never to talk to you again? Man that weight must be incredible.

I know we like to joke on here, but seeing an ex you had a pretty rough breakup with years later look like this and reading how she feels about you would hurt your soul a bit.

Times like that you have to be strong tho and continue on your own way tho. I am sure whenever "Matt" gets a hold of this story it will get to him.

 

[kevm3]

amazing that this comment to that story was actually from a woman:

Ah, the lovely legacy feminism has left for women. Nobody wants to say it but if she didn't have a fancy career she would probably have had everything she wanted by now. The truth is, when the woman makes more money there is a significantly increased chance the marriage or relationship will end. The more women move up in the economy, the more unhappy they become. Experts here in the states are baffled that women supposedly "have it all" yet from every angle their happiness has been declining over the last 40 years relative to men's. I don't work. I've never had a career. I'm one of those "deadbeat" housewives out there that "doesn't do anything" (or at least that's how modern society has come to view those like me thanks to feminism the truth is I do a lot). This story really made me want to cry but I know there are millions of other women just like her out there. I think hopefully my generation is slowly catching on that the feminist movement has been bad for us
- heathertwra , Atlanta, United States, 18/1/2013 21:12

This one is more in line with how a lot of women really think:

I can relate to this woman in a way, but I have not had a serious relationship in years, so it's not like I've had the opportunity to marry or have children. I am almost 40 &childless as a result of no relationship but I have been trying to concieve on my own for about 2 yrs. I am open to adoption but being single, everything is more difficult. I am looking at tens of thousands of dollars and a long wait in order to adopt through an agency that even accepts single women. I was willing to settle for a nice guy three, four years ago since I desperately wanted children but just could not settle and now I find myself longing for a family of my own.. i really don't care about having a man since I am fairly self-sufficient and have a decent career. She is 42, not too old to be a mother but she will need some help if she wants to have a baby with her own eggs. it does happen, but it is harder when you're over 40. She still has time, she needs to not waffle back & forth and do it now.
- KatenAz , chandler, 18/1/2013 18:15

Notice the words 'was willing to 'settle with a nice guy'' as if they are the absolute last thing of desire in her menu... and the only reason to settle with one is not to actually appreciate and love another person, but because she wants children of her own.

 

[Liquid]

@kevm3 had to take that first quote and post it in another thread.

 

[kevm3]

no doubt, it's crazy how even some women are waking up... and those are the ones who actually end up happily married with a man that takes care of them and a family that loves them.

Simps and feminists are leading a lot of women down the EXACT same path as THIS woman. How many specials on television have you seen with 30 to 40 year old career women talking about why they can't find good men. Anyone notice a pattern there? A lot of these women have been promised the world by man-hating LESBIANS who kick feminist ideology into their heads. These women, hearing words of empowerment, of being held back by the patriarchy and a host of other self-victimizing rhetoric, get angry and start believing this drivel. They are told they can whore it up in their 20s and come back with a loving nice guy they can 'settle with' when their biological clocks are just bout ready to expire. Ever notice how they all have the same rhetoric when they are in their 30s and all those bad boys done busted in that thing and got in the wind? I want a baby! I want a guy that loves ME! Never once do you hear them say they want to genuinely get to know a man and get to appreciate him. They come in looking at these men as merely some way to fulfill their OWN needs... as if he is some benefit package for her choosing.

Feminists instill the rhetoric and deceptive simps encourage and defend it in an attempt to 'please her, and appear acceptable to her so that they can slip in and get a shot at that sugarpot between her legs. Little does she know that she is being led right down to a path of loneliness and regret. The cats that tell these women the real end up being called 'bitter' or some other variation out of the shaming language grab bag. But the reality is, those cats are telling you the truth. You can't go around whoring it up in your 20s and then expect some nice guy to wrap you up when you fell off in terms of look and have already had a hundred guys do their thing with you... if you have a kid, it's doubly worse. These women spend their younger years feeling themselves and thinking they are so fly only to feel regrets on 'the one' that ended up passing her by.

 

[kevm3]

Here's another gem from the emasculation of men movement

taken from here:
http://www.the-coli.com/locker-room/80499-men-skirts-movement-real-people.html

That androgynous push is real. This negro has the audacity to wear a baseball cap and some nikes with a ballerina outfit? What's sad is that you hardly even see females wearing dresses like that anymore or dresses period unless they are older... but this fella got on a skirt.

 

[kevm3]

Here goes another gem of an article for you on what these 'modern women' are thinking, and this is reaching millions of readers on huffingtonpost

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/alana-stewart/post_4272_b_2442820.html?utm_hp_ref=divorce&ir=Divorce#

Is 'I Do' Supposed To Be Forever?

I used to think that divorce meant failure, but now I see it more as a step along the path of self-realization and growth. (I chronicle this journey in-depth in my memoir Rearview Mirror.) I don't regret either of my marriages -- not for a minute. I only regret that I wasn't more mature and spiritually evolved, and that I hadn't yet learned the art of compromise and how to be a more loving, supportive, understanding mate. But you learn by making mistakes, and perhaps what could be called a "failed marriage" is really a learning experience that helps us grow into the women (and men) we need to become in order to find that special relationship that really can last.

Another conclusion that I've come to, which I suppose is rather controversial and may incite a lot of hate mail, is that I don't believe marriage is necessarily meant to last forever. But hear me out before you hit the comment button. I was talking to my minister the other day, and he said that the belief that you have to stay with one person for your whole life is an "old idea" and doesn't always work in modern society, where traditional beliefs and values have been undergoing a transformation for many years. Consider how society looked at gay marriage and even racially mixed marriages 50 or 60 years ago. He pointed out that several hundred years ago, many people were lucky if they lived to be forty. And yet, when people marry, they're supposed to stay together "til' death do us part".

I had a similar conversation with a friend of mine who is a well-known spiritual teacher. She said that we come together with another person to have a relationship and to learn from each other -- and that the relationship is not necessarily meant to last forever. She repeated a quote she'd heard: "We are brought together for a reason, a season, or a lifetime."

One hopes, of course, that a relationship grows and becomes a deep and wonderful marriage and friendship that lasts forever. But that's not always the case. Often people meet, fall in love, get married, have children, raise them and suddenly look at one another and think, "I don't have anything in common with this person anymore." Or they just don't get along, or the marriage has become dead and devoid of passion. Should those two people be sentenced to being unhappy and unfulfilled for the rest of their lives because that's what society has told them they should do? Or under the guise of keeping a family together when the children are grown and have gone their own ways?

I've known a few of those lucky couples who had that "forever" kind of love. Not too many years ago, I was seated at a dinner party next to Veronique Peck, who was married to Gregory Peck for many years. She confided in me that she was still madly in love with Gregory and that every time he walked into the room, her heart still skipped a beat. Right then and there I thought, "That's the kind of love I want to have!" Okay, so maybe she was married to one of the most legendary and handsome men of all time, but I've known other couples who were just normal folks who genuinely loved, adored and cherished their mate; they truly enjoyed spending time together and remained that way until they died. I've also known a lot of married couples who you could clearly see were just "hanging in there" for all the wrong reasons and who were both unhappy and unfulfilled.

I ran into a woman recently that I hadn't seen for some time. She had been in a very unhappy, longtime marriage and her pinched, drawn face always reflected her miserable situation. At first I didn't recognize her; I couldn't believe this was the same woman I had known. She looked like a different person -- about fifteen years younger and absolutely radiant. Standing at her side was a very attractive man who apparently was her new boyfriend. Her husband had left her for someone else and she'd been devastated when the marriage finally ended. But in the end, it was all for the best, and she wouldn't change the outcome for the world.

I realize that most of us are simply afraid of change and would rather stay in a stagnant relationship than brave the unknown. But, from experience, I've learned a valuable lesson that applies to life in general. Sometimes you just have to let go of the old and trust that something better is going to take its place, even if it's scary to face change and the unknown.

At the end of the day, I know that I would rather be alone and occasionally lonely and unhappy than in a miserable marriage and lonely and unhappy all the time. I don't mind being single. In fact, I like it. Of course, if I had my choice between being single and being with someone I was in love with, there's no question which I would choose.

My seemingly unorthodox preference for being alone rather than settling for someone I'm not in love with seems to confound my friends. They're constantly lecturing me that I'm too picky and I'm not a "spring chicken" anymore -- that it's time to find a nice man and "settle down". It's the word "settle" that bothers me. I never settled before in my life and maybe I'd just rather be alone in my bed with my long-haired Chihuahua and my remote control than sleep next to someone I'm not madly, passionately in love with. And maybe I won't ever find that special person, but if and when I do, I will be the woman I've spent all these years becoming -- a woman who has finally learned what love is and what love isn't. And the best news of all is that at that point, we'll be too old to get bored with each other because we won't have enough years left!

Marriage isn't her attempting to share a life and making a commitment with another person, but rather a tool for HER to dabble with for her 'growth.' Is this not insanity? What kind of simp minister does she have to tell her that marriage isn't for life? There goes one of those ministers with 'smooth words' that the Bible was warning us about. Also note her conversations with 'spiritual teacher' later on in the article, who is very likely kicking new age rhetoric into her mind that nothing is truly bad, but everything is just merely an opportunity for 'growth and self-fulfillment', or another subtle way of stating 'do what thou will'... aka luciferian doctrine.

There's just a certain point when you come to realize that it's not you and not having enough 'game', but rather it's the screwed up mindset that women are pushing upon themselves and actually believing. Not only did we have articles about 'gaggles' and 'starter husbands', but we're actually treated to a woman believing and writing on a major website that she doesn't believe 'marriage is for life' and is a tool of her own growth. Now do ya'll see why the knowledge kicked on here is so important?

Ask this same woman if she will marry a man that makes significantly less than her and not sign a prenup, since it's all about growth. I bet you she wouldn't touch a man that did. Now let's see if she would get offended about being asked to sign a prenup if she met a multimillionaire. You already know the answer... "Well if you REALLY loved me, you wouldn't ask me to do this." "How can you come into the marriage believing it will fail?" It won't be all about self-fulfillment and growth if SHE is the one getting swindled, but she will avoid that because she won't marry a man that makes less than her... she will just sleep with them if they are exciting and attempt to pin the financial repercussions and life responsibilities of her decisions on a sucker negro who is willing to believe the sob stories she will have prepared for him. These sucker negroes will incur countless debt giving her a fancy 'princess day' and buying the house and car she won't stop clamoring for, only to be shucked to the side when she gets bored and no longer feels any 'personal development and growth. You all know the script.

Tether yourself to these walking timebombs if you want to, but I'll just stand back in the far, far distance watching those who refuse to heed the advice blow themselves to pieces.