Why couldn't this thread have existed back when I was 16 
Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
- Thread starter Rominati
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If we behave viciously and conniving, then we're just as bad as the women we disdain.
Being a decent man does not mean to sweep a woman off of her feet or become the man of her dreams.
Being a decent man means to be defined. It means to be clear in your morals, standards, goals, expectations, and to never compromise your integrity.
I hate to use the word "nice guy", because yes, it is synonymous with weak.
We don't want to be nice guys. We want to become men of respect.
Men that demand respect, and those who disrespect us have no room in our lives.
If I see that a woman is putting me in a position where my morals and integrity is being challenged (ie, she's telling me that she's going out with another man) I am confronting her immediately and ending the relationship.
A man of respect will not allow a woman to make ultimatums, especially the ones that can undoubtedly change the course of the relationship.
This is where we are at.
*listens, learns, understands*
I totally agree with the bit about being a man who demands respect from others and sticks firmly to his standards. It just seems that any guy who values living an morally right/decent/positive life faces an uphill battle when dealing with people in general. As a person who for the most part values moral decency, I feel that sometimes I have to hide my natural behavior or change into a being a foul,grimy,disrespectful person because I have noticed since I was a young child how many people have respect for guys who engage in all types of behavior that is not indicative of moral decency and how they have the tendency to try to shyt on guys who try to live as decent human beings. That is why I say that a man cannot be an overall decent person. It is unfortunate, but it is reality.
I will say there is a big distinction from 'nice guy' and a truly moral and decent guy. The nice guy believes in catering to women and accomodating their demands as a way to win them. A moral and decent man does not. He will operate on principle and will not accomodate women to please them. You can have solid morals and still attract a lot of women. In the end, it's the moral men that win since they take their time to avoid the time bombs and don't go rushing out impregnating any woman walking.
Nice guys expect to get the women by doing what she wants. The moral guy will help others and do righteous things without expecting anything in return, but at the end of the day, he is still a man and won't let women get one over on him, nor will he give up his manly authority, unlike 'nice guys'. Nice guys are usually passive and expect the woman to come to them and do everything. A moral, righteous man isn't passive. He isn't afraid to go out and get what he wants.
A lot of women DO like criminals and losers, but let them deal with the repercussions of that. If you put your game together right, you will have a ton of women who are into 'your type' on you. Being a moral man doesn't mean you're accomodating or a sucker. Remember, the Bible doesn't say you need to help the greedy, it says you need to help the needy... so with that said, you are under no obligation to give to a woman who can do for herself but chooses not to.
Nice guys expect to get the women by doing what she wants. The moral guy will help others and do righteous things without expecting anything in return, but at the end of the day, he is still a man and won't let women get one over on him, nor will he give up his manly authority, unlike 'nice guys'. Nice guys are usually passive and expect the woman to come to them and do everything. A moral, righteous man isn't passive. He isn't afraid to go out and get what he wants.
A lot of women DO like criminals and losers, but let them deal with the repercussions of that. If you put your game together right, you will have a ton of women who are into 'your type' on you. Being a moral man doesn't mean you're accomodating or a sucker. Remember, the Bible doesn't say you need to help the greedy, it says you need to help the needy... so with that said, you are under no obligation to give to a woman who can do for herself but chooses not to.
CrossBones
Louder than words
as for this thread only being about whores, its not. every woman has teeth. even a nice girl can turn bad or do something reckless. the point of all this knowledge we're sharing is to be able to recognize it, know what you should do, and to do your best to avoid being in a rough, compromising situation. learn from others mistakes and successes.
and sharp and kevm3 are right, if you stay of a certain principle and maintain your standards, you can eventually find what youre looking for. all those guys who run around wearing funny shyt, listening to things because women like it, trying to impress females with their holdings, trying to buy their loyalty, and trying to be mr accommodating are all taking shortcuts through the game.
the only problem is, that it makes you less concerning with the types you choose. if youre out here trying to get every woman who looks good get with you, then you are going to end up with hella drama because looks alone cant distinguish a good character.
only by you yourself being of a certain character, and practicing that, will you get a good eye as to whom you are dealing with, and even an understanding in how to get it. see it all has to match.
and sharp and kevm3 are right, if you stay of a certain principle and maintain your standards, you can eventually find what youre looking for. all those guys who run around wearing funny shyt, listening to things because women like it, trying to impress females with their holdings, trying to buy their loyalty, and trying to be mr accommodating are all taking shortcuts through the game.
the only problem is, that it makes you less concerning with the types you choose. if youre out here trying to get every woman who looks good get with you, then you are going to end up with hella drama because looks alone cant distinguish a good character.
only by you yourself being of a certain character, and practicing that, will you get a good eye as to whom you are dealing with, and even an understanding in how to get it. see it all has to match.
rapdonttweet
Pro
True words that I've heard over and over yet some guys still don't get it. One of the key words here is passive. Never be passive.
Exactly. I have always been aware of the difference between being a morally decent guy and a nice guy (which I avoid being). I think the issue here is that many people lack the clear understanding of this difference.
International Playa
Playa with a Passport
I agree, most of us here have dealt with supposedly good girls and for what ever reason screwed us up,
Not By Bread Alone
Rookie
what did you say to her on the phone?
DaRealness
I think very deeply
Scustin Trillberlake
Banned
Yeah i probably would. I just don't think 28 & 21 is some weird age difference. I have seen couples 10-12 years apart. I would never date that far apart, and i do like a 3-5 year window better, but i don't think 28/21 is weird.
International Playa
Playa with a Passport
It's not weird, it's perfect as long as your girl is mature, I swear Jay-z is 43 and beyonce is 31
God damn these Patriots still cannot keep their wives in check 
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