relationship advice: who should I cut off?

[Blackking]

Im a very nice guy. Sort of an a$$hole at times, but nice.

I've recently been thinking that I'm putting out way too much money and energy that could be going to my kids.

I have:
First bm... pay her extra child support cuz shes going back to school. bytch already has a masters

Other bm: pay her bills occasionally, do things like got her a tablet..because shes broke n has my son. Give her like 100 here n there so she wont start drama etc.

Outta town side chick, I trick off when I visit.. send her money when she needs it cuz she was down over ten years before I knew any of these others.

Young rat: don't wanna cut her off cuz she currently my only dark skin goodness. Plus she a broke teen. Plus it's like 40 bucks here n there only... she don't even ask for shyt..

Main chick: basically a dime African queen, my only dime.. but high standards. She makes like 50k a year so has some money.. but we take trips n shyt.. that adds up .. like 3k a pop n shyt.

Arab chick.. its the hotels mostly.. and the time wasted.. and the fakeness. She acts like she loves her husband. I really like her but I cant stand the thought of getting a old arab dudes seconds. Plus shes like a kim k type arab... and that's a lil too close to cac for me

my mom.... she drives a benz but always askin for shyt.. idc either because she could make better financial choices.

So who? Or all?

 

[BedRoomI'z]

All them women, breh?

You cant possibly be happy.

Why you want them kind of problems?

 

[BedRoomI'z]

Personally I would start with the one hitting your pockets the hardest and work your way down the list.

Excluding Ma Dukes

 

[Blackking]

All them women, breh?

You cant possibly be happy.

Why you want them kind of problems?

Im happy.. I just have a problem cutting people off that dont piss me off.

Plus I hardly look at women,never have to date,never feel the need for variety, etc. Its not stress.

 

[Fmju]

Cut off the young rat first and foremost cuz that's just asking for trouble

Then all that extra child support shyt needa to get cut. Any extra money you want to give your kids put it in their hands or if it's for like sports or other activities, you do it. You don't owe them chicken heads any more than what the courts say.

The Arab chick can kick rocks too frfr, that's a couple bills right there that could get paid instead of trickin of on some sloppy seconds. Plus you didn't have anything positive to say about her so why you still wasting money on her

You owe your Moms more than what you giving her now. All the money you gon be saving from trimming the fat of the other 4 can be kept at home to keep wifey happy.

The Outta Town chick you say was down before the rest of these chicks you can keep around for all your other adulterous needs.

 

[Blackking]

I cant rep u fmju, but good advice.. except I do wanna cut moms off... cuz she has a husband... that nikka nees to pick up...

 

[Soundbwoy]

your life sound skressfull bruh
keep ya mama, both bm and keep the side chick that satisfy your need

 

[Solano707]

Im a very nice guy. Sort of an a$$hole at times, but nice.

I've recently been thinking that I'm putting out way too much money and energy that could be going to my kids.

I have:
First bm... pay her extra child support cuz shes going back to school. bytch already has a masters

Other bm: pay her bills occasionally, do things like got her a tablet..because shes broke n has my son. Give her like 100 here n there so she wont start drama etc.

Outta town side chick, I trick off when I visit.. send her money when she needs it cuz she was down over ten years before I knew any of these others.

Young rat: don't wanna cut her off cuz she currently my only dark skin goodness. Plus she a broke teen. Plus it's like 40 bucks here n there only... she don't even ask for shyt..

Main chick: basically a dime African queen, my only dime.. but high standards. She makes like 50k a year so has some money.. but we take trips n shyt.. that adds up .. like 3k a pop n shyt.

Arab chick.. its the hotels mostly.. and the time wasted.. and the fakeness. She acts like she loves her husband. I really like her but I cant stand the thought of getting a old arab dudes seconds. Plus shes like a kim k type arab... and that's a lil too close to cac for me

my mom.... she drives a benz but always askin for shyt.. idc either because she could make better financial choices.

So who? Or all?

I stopped right there. WTF are you doing? If she has a graduate degree, why are you giving her extra money? For what, what's the purpose? You have already helped her out way much and you her child support. She getting her back blowned out by the professor and you still like "here" take my money. You need to grow a pair I know it's hard all, but she getting over.

 

[Blackking]

I stopped right there. WTF are you doing? If she has a graduate degree, why are you giving her extra money? For what, what's the purpose? You have already helped her out way much and you her child support. She getting her back blowned out by the professor and you still like "here" take my money. You need to grow a pair I know it's hard all, but she getting over.

Cuz my son is in exp private school.. so thats not included in support. Cuz she needed a new whip, didn't want my son riding in a death trap. And the extra money is so she lives comfortable and happy. I learned in school that happy people r better parents... so I figured shes cool, not struggling then they will be cool.
Her masters and ba are in bullshyt like psy.. non technical degrees so unlike me she can't really spark a career like that.

Idk really.... just got caught up. I dont even like her anymore n I know she is probably an international dixksucker by now... but my son has never met any man so im cool w that. I think

 

[Solano707]

Cuz my son is in exp private school.. so thats not included in support. Cuz she needed a new whip, didn't want my son riding in a death trap. And the extra money is so she lives comfortable and happy. I learned in school that happy people r better parents... so I figured shes cool, not struggling then they will be cool.
Her masters and ba are in bullshyt like psy.. non technical degrees so unlike me she can't really spark a career like that.

Idk really.... just got caught up. I dont even like her anymore n I know she is probably an international dixksucker by now... but my son has never met any man so im cool w that. I think

Not to derail your post bruh - but if i was in your position (sorta am), I would pay only the amount of child support that was required - and IF there additional things your son needs, like private school - I would pay for it myself. She has to realize that she shouldn't be leaning up on you for support like that.

 

[aXiom]

Youz a dumb ass nikka, take care of your seed as much as you need to and stack/invest the rest of your paper. Grown women without disabilities should be able to take care of themselves. You're gonna need that money you're wasting sometime in the future.

 

[malbaker86]

Whatever you do, I have a feeling it ain't going to end well tho

 

[BocaRear]

Young thang & Arab chick & outta town side hoe gotta go

Dont give your moms anymore money either, just advise her financially & to be more responsible.

 

[Remote]

Cut em all off.
Support your kids. To hell with the rest of them.
You out here supporting lifestyles but if you come down on hard times, you'll be all alone.
Those hoes aint gonna help you breh. In fact, the baby moms will probably have you arrested for lack of child support.
Chris Brown said they aint loyal
And women don't respect a man they gotta maintain...even if he's down on his luck one day.
You've been warned.

 

[old_timer]

Arab chick.. its the hotels mostly.. and the time wasted.. and the fakeness. She acts like she loves her husband. I really like her but I cant stand the thought of getting a old arab dudes seconds. Plus shes like a kim k type arab... and that's a lil too close to cac for me

i'd probably cut the arab chick

and i might want to look at your mother+stepfather's situation
when family are kinda irresponsible with money, i don't give them cash
pay the bill directly instead