Social Media Is Creating An Entire Generation Of Men Who Feel Theyre Not Worthy Of Basic Females

[Spiritual Stratocaster]

OP is right..if I just relied on social media id be lonely and bitter.

Women get online or on apps and talk about this shyt about wanting men to meet height requirements, personality traits, and to be confident yet on the street those same women act awkward around you, ain't getting approached much and ain't even confident in themselves.

All the broads who do cosmetics at my job you would think are these "dimes" yet are awkward, and just basic broads.

 

[Straw Hat Luffy]

Man I stay falling in this trap. I'm a young dude tho. But all you old heads just don't fukking understand. And of course why would 30+ year old dudes understand how the younger gen minds work? We grew up in the social media era you guys grew up in another era who just adapted to the times of the internet. Just understand while you are clowning us because we just don't know any better and keep falling into this cycle. But please continue to clown us because we need this shyt.

Like back in your day the way to making a friend in your 20s was going out socializing conversation with people at a group party then saying we should kick it some time. People nowadays make friends by commenting on someone status or after a unlimited online games of madden and 2k. Like does that not sound far off from your time?

I was actually thinking about this shyt last night honestly. Social media has killed a lot of todays men's self esteem and boosted the most average chick ego to kanye west levels. These females be 7's and 8's, shyt even lower, post pictures on instagram, got 1000 followers gets 100 likes, got 3000 fb friends, got 50 messages from dudes and females tryna fukk her, get likes and comments on every post just because someone wants to fukk her, gets a match every time she swipes right on tinder, gets 20 snapchat messages by the hour, she got dudes in her dm on twitter. So when she leaves me on read and she posting statuses like "A queen deserves a real nikka" and receives about 15 likes meanwhile liking and sharing statuses from dudes who be coming up with intelligent shyt to say on fb "most likely stolen" I be like damn I ain't shyt I don't deserve her.

I be fukking acting like I don't have a new gf every year, I be acting like I wasn't getting my dikk sucked every day before i broke up with oh girl and I hit this cold streak of not getting p*ssy the past month. I be acting like these chicks who seem way above me who got 4000 friends got 1000 likes and all that are on some other level meanwhile in reality she got 3 kids at 22 and work at taco bell and some desk job with a ged education while I got a god damn associates. That's fukking backwards thinking for me man.

Its easy to fall in those traps brothers. Most of these females are not interesting, most of these girls can't even hold a convo, shyt most of these women are straight out mean bytches. And remain like that because we let it slide because we fear if we correct what we don't like we won't be able to fukk. Meanwhile she cuts you off for the most silly shyt ever because she can because she got 100 options in her inbox.

Social media fukked the game up brehs.

 

[A Tribe Called Quest ™]

first off, social media turns normal, everyday people into "celebrities". I look at some of these InstaThots yall post here daily and its amazing how the platform turns these regular (albeit attractive) females into untouchable, mythical creatures. Cats really be on that "i could never get a girl like that" simply because of the ILLUSION that social media creates. Social media creates a false sense of importance. Ive even noticed how these chicks write long a55 monologues under their pics as if people really give a fukk about their opinions

Social Media is really making men think that we're out of these basic females league. Yea, they got a fat a55 but i can literally go to a local walmart and see badder chicks before i even walk in the door.

I feel sorry for you younger brehs who are actually growing up on social media. Its giving yall a false sense of reality as far as women themselves and also your own self-esteem in putting these women on a pedestal.

The long-term effects of social media period is gonna be

This the first thought of yours I agree with

 

[PhonZhi]

Man I stay falling in this trap. I'm a young dude tho. But all you old heads just don't fukking understand. And of course why would 30+ year old dudes understand how the younger gen minds work? We grew up in the social media era you guys grew up in another era who just adapted to the times of the internet. Just understand while you are clowning us because we just don't know any better and keep falling into this cycle. But please continue to clown us because we need this shyt.

Like back in your day the way to making a friend in your 20s was going out socializing conversation with people at a group party then saying we should kick it some time. People nowadays make friends by commenting on someone status or after a unlimited online games of madden and 2k. Like does that not sound far off from your time?

I was actually thinking about this shyt last night honestly. Social media has killed a lot of todays men's self esteem and boosted the most average chick ego to kanye west levels. These females be 7's and 8's, shyt even lower, post pictures on instagram, got 1000 followers gets 100 likes, got 3000 fb friends, got 50 messages from dudes and females tryna fukk her, get likes and comments on every post just because someone wants to fukk her, gets a match every time she swipes right on tinder, gets 20 snapchat messages by the hour, she got dudes in her dm on twitter. So when she leaves me on read and she posting statuses like "A queen deserves a real nikka" and receives about 15 likes meanwhile liking and sharing statuses from dudes who be coming up with intelligent shyt to say on fb "most likely stolen" I be like damn I ain't shyt I don't deserve her.

I be fukking acting like I don't have a new gf every year, I be acting like I wasn't getting my dikk sucked every day before i broke up with oh girl and I hit this cold streak of not getting p*ssy the past month. I be acting like these chicks who seem way above me who got 4000 friends got 1000 likes and all that are on some other level meanwhile in reality she got 3 kids at 22 and work at taco bell and some desk job with a ged education while I got a god damn associates. That's fukking backwards thinking for me man.

Its easy to fall in those traps brothers. Most of these females are not interesting, most of these girls can't even hold a convo, shyt most of these women are straight out mean bytches. And remain like that because we let it slide because we fear if we correct what we don't like we won't be able to fukk. Meanwhile she cuts you off for the most silly shyt ever because she can because she got 100 options in her inbox.

Social media fukked the game up brehs.

You hit it on the head breh. Social media makes everybody seem more important than they really are and dudes are falling for it.

Lots of these chicks don't even have basic shyt like a car and living paycheck to paycheck and yet they stunting like movie stars online.

Shyts crazy.

 

[CapitalforCapital]

fat acceptance is in full swing...if anything standards are now lowered to where whales feels like 10s

Them bytches don't go outside and the nikkas that gas them don't either.

 

[MalikX]

Man I stay falling in this trap. I'm a young dude tho. But all you old heads just don't fukking understand. And of course why would 30+ year old dudes understand how the younger gen minds work? We grew up in the social media era you guys grew up in another era who just adapted to the times of the internet. Just understand while you are clowning us because we just don't know any better and keep falling into this cycle. But please continue to clown us because we need this shyt.

Like back in your day the way to making a friend in your 20s was going out socializing conversation with people at a group party then saying we should kick it some time. People nowadays make friends by commenting on someone status or after a unlimited online games of madden and 2k. Like does that not sound far off from your time?

I was actually thinking about this shyt last night honestly. Social media has killed a lot of todays men's self esteem and boosted the most average chick ego to kanye west levels. These females be 7's and 8's, shyt even lower, post pictures on instagram, got 1000 followers gets 100 likes, got 3000 fb friends, got 50 messages from dudes and females tryna fukk her, get likes and comments on every post just because someone wants to fukk her, gets a match every time she swipes right on tinder, gets 20 snapchat messages by the hour, she got dudes in her dm on twitter. So when she leaves me on read and she posting statuses like "A queen deserves a real nikka" and receives about 15 likes meanwhile liking and sharing statuses from dudes who be coming up with intelligent shyt to say on fb "most likely stolen" I be like damn I ain't shyt I don't deserve her.

I be fukking acting like I don't have a new gf every year, I be acting like I wasn't getting my dikk sucked every day before i broke up with oh girl and I hit this cold streak of not getting p*ssy the past month. I be acting like these chicks who seem way above me who got 4000 friends got 1000 likes and all that are on some other level meanwhile in reality she got 3 kids at 22 and work at taco bell and some desk job with a ged education while I got a god damn associates. That's fukking backwards thinking for me man.

Its easy to fall in those traps brothers. Most of these females are not interesting, most of these girls can't even hold a convo, shyt most of these women are straight out mean bytches. And remain like that because we let it slide because we fear if we correct what we don't like we won't be able to fukk. Meanwhile she cuts you off for the most silly shyt ever because she can because she got 100 options in her inbox.

Social media fukked the game up brehs.

I've noticed this about my nephew who was born in 1999...he has amost no socialization skills to the point of saying he doesn't want to go to Prom, Graduation, take pictures for school and is just socially awkward to the point that I have to try to build up his confidence and get him to be more outgoing. His mom tried to act like I was like that growing up when I stayed with bytches, went to 2 proms, was a part of multiple clubs at school and used to perform with my band weekly in front of thousands of people If he grew up with me or definitely my older brothers who were 70s babies he would've been a savage. But I digress.....yea.....you're right. I was born in 1988 so our generation was the first generation (1985 to 1993)....we remember what it was like without computers being a part of our daily life....but we were still young enough to easily adapt to technology when it came because we were all 12 - 20 when it happened. The new generation of kids, those born from like 96 onward don't remember a world before Facebook, Twitter & Instagram. 80s babies can relate to this generation somewhat but, we'll never truly be able to see eye to eye because yall never lived in a world where people weren't glued to their phones 24/7. That definitely had an effect on the socialization skills of the youth. If you expected to date at all back then you had to build up the courage to talk to a girl....nikkas is too scared and too reliant on online mediums now. And for girls....back then they weren't stuck up princesses because they weren't getting 500 likes on a picture. She was just the pretty broad you saw at the mall with her friends Friday night. shyt changed. Even in 10 years, its changed alot

 

[Mirin4rmfar]

Yeah, I agree with this whole thread. I have noticed the more a woman is on social media, the more she will make you jump through hoops. A basic woman will get on a dating app and have 200 plus matches, 300 plus friend requests. It is ridiculous lol.

 

[The Minister Of Culture]

The first thing imma ask a woman (hoe) now until I die is "What them IG captions looking like?"

If she got anything promoting tummy tea fashion nova etc its bushes

FACTS

 

[Carlton Banks]

I'm definitely trying to slowly unplug from the social media world completely.

It's a reason why as a young breh I seem to always gravitate and do well with older women. Older women also didn't grow up in this bs social media generation and don't let the shyt get to their head as much as these young girls. Seems like if you want a cool chick, she gotta be around 34+ years old now.

 

[Kobes Two Jerseys]

Be a dad to your sons and social media doesn't phase them. They will already know about tell lie vision, politricks, and which cactics to watch out for.

 

[Uitomy]

I also notice a lot of these ig girls get ridiculously insecure when you actually friends with them on some platonic shyt, I've made a couple of good homies on social media, and when I just cool and talk to them they stay sending me pictures of themselves and will talk a huge amount of shyt about themselves.......then immediately post a selfie like they just wasn't moping about their face. They tell me a bunch of issues I'm pretty sure they don't do with nikkas they mess around with cause chances are they some thrasher shirt and vans as dudes that beg to be with them or simp on them and just boost their ego. When you chill you may throw a compliment or so but that's it and they just can't fathom that, it's ironic though cause once you show some interest you turn into a basic follower to them

 

[Saysumthinfunnymike]

Yeah shyt changed and I been said that but at the same time you young ass dudes should still be fukkin college hoes or bytches at your work. Yes they got thousands of followers and likes but they still gravitate to people they see all the time or people they got shyt in common with. They'll be tryin to be instafamous but still lettin the fry cook paint the walls.

 

[Yo Mama]

I would have thought it was the opposite.

Young men wanting unrealistic beauty standards.

Angles, shots, filters, makeup....

 

[FSP]

Yeah shyt changed and I been said that but at the same time you young ass dudes should still be fukkin college hoes or bytches at your work. Yes they got thousands of followers and likes but they still gravitate to people they see all the time or people they got shyt in common with. They'll be tryin to be instafamous but still lettin the fry cook paint the walls.

 

[FSP]

I'm definitely trying to slowly unplug from the social media world completely.

It's a reason why as a young breh I seem to always gravitate and do well with older women. Older women also didn't grow up in this bs social media generation and don't let the shyt get to their head as much as these young girls. Seems like if you want a cool chick, she gotta be around 34+ years old now.

I had no social media and no smartphone from the years 2015-2016 and it's not all it's cracked up to be. Maybe its because I was forced not to use it instead of not using it by choice but...it just made me feel like I was more lost without it than with it.