SPIN OFF: How important is looks to you in the hiearchy of importance when dating?
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Slaimon Khan Shah
SLAIMON KHAN SHAH = SHAOLIN MONK/S OF ISLAAM
LOOKS ARE EXTREMELY IMPORTANT TO ME! IT'S ALL ABOUT ISLAAM TO ME BUT AFTER THAT THEN IT'S ABOUT LOOKS!
This is very similar to how I operated.
VertigoKnight
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As you get older a good personality trumps a woman being an attractive but dumb as shyt airhead 'dime'
Of course, depending on where you live you can have the best of both worlds. But I generally like a woman to have a decent job and a certain level of education before I mess with her.
Even with a casual encounter.
Of course, depending on where you live you can have the best of both worlds. But I generally like a woman to have a decent job and a certain level of education before I mess with her.
Even with a casual encounter.
Looks are important, but it certainly takes a back seat to personality, having a solid moral compass, coming from a stable home, family background, being properly home trained, ambition, intelligence strong work ethic, possessing a solid spiritual foundation, being emotionally healthy, etc..
But, I do want to stress that being physically attracted to someone is very important! People need that spark, especially when meeting someone otherwise they will mentally check out on someone whether intentionally or not.
But, I do want to stress that being physically attracted to someone is very important! People need that spark, especially when meeting someone otherwise they will mentally check out on someone whether intentionally or not.
I was hoping some of you all valued other things. I knew we had a few mature brehs lurking around here.
I'm not saying anything is wrong with wanting someone that is very attractive, but you set yourself up for failure if that is the cornerstone of your relationship.
I'm not saying anything is wrong with wanting someone that is very attractive, but you set yourself up for failure if that is the cornerstone of your relationship.
Dorian Breh
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Islam
Don't confuse the attraction that got you noticed with being the most important thing once interest has been established.It’s #1
People don’t approach people they don’t have a physical attraction to (in some form) HOPING they have a fantastic personality
Slaimon Khan Shah
SLAIMON KHAN SHAH = SHAOLIN MONK/S OF ISLAAM
I HAVE NO IDEA WHAT YOU ARE TRYING TO CONVEY. HOWEVER....
ISLAAM COMES FIRST BUT LOOKS ARE A BIG DEAL FOR ME.
Tenchi Ryu
Ashtray B!tch
It depends because for me its all about having a compatible combo.
For example...if you're not conventionally a dime or not even average in the face.....like maybe a 4-5 range...but you got a personality I can dig as well as some type of physical boost like a fat ass or big ass titties, I can work with that. Or having no body but a good personality and conventionally attractive in the face..like Zendaya...I could work with that too.
Beauty and body with no good personality, cna't do that whatsoever. These types legit turn me off completely.
For example...if you're not conventionally a dime or not even average in the face.....like maybe a 4-5 range...but you got a personality I can dig as well as some type of physical boost like a fat ass or big ass titties, I can work with that. Or having no body but a good personality and conventionally attractive in the face..like Zendaya...I could work with that too.
Beauty and body with no good personality, cna't do that whatsoever. These types legit turn me off completely.
