The ain't shyt nikka mindset

[Balla]

So I'm at the point where women my age are starting to get careers and I don't have one, and don't know when I'll get it.

This is the first time I'm thinking about it because most of the time we were on even playing field because of work and school, now that I'm older it's starting to change.

I'm not tryna pay for shyt, just the feeling of having my shyt together is good.

I fukk with girls that have decent careers sometimes and that shyt gets in my head because I feel I need to have a career to feel better about myself.

My point of this thread is that I want to ask, how do dudes who ain't shyt nikkas think? How do they not care about not having shyt and living off of women?

There's nikkas that don't got shyt or aren't working towards shyt, but I hear have career women take care of them, and they don't care about not having shyt or not working towards shyt.

How do these nikkas think and not care about not having shyt?

Just curious because they just don't give a shyt.

Because I'm trying out here and if these nikkas don't give a shyt about bettering themselves, then maybe I shouldn't worry about it so much.

Maybe I'm just thinkin about it too much.

 

[Hater Eraser]

I'm not an aint shyt nikka..so I couldn't tell you

 

[Boogie]

Don’t worry about the next nikka and focus on yourself.

 

[Serious]

as long as their basic needs are met,then they're content.....

It's easy to live that way if you got a roof over your head, food, and constant supply of sex.......

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[you're NOT "n!ggas"]

Never wondered how other dudes don't give a fukk but I definitely understand where you're coming from when it comes to dating these women and wanting more.

 

[Lord Bison]

Im an aint shyt nikka.

Aint shyt in the sense that I have my own crib, car, in decent shape and business with no kids and I wont share. I'll cut em loose as soon as they get too comfortable or try to get too close.

I wouldnt have it any other way

 

[Balla]

I don't mean it that way.

I'm thinking of it as, should I worry about where I'm not compared to a girl I'm fukkin, where you got guys that don't even try not even worrying about making anything of themselves and fukkin them with no care.

Don’t worry about the next nikka and focus on yourself.

Never wondered how other dudes don't give a fukk but I definitely understand where you're coming from when it comes to dating these women and wanting more.

 

[you're NOT "n!ggas"]

I don't mean it that way.

I'm thinking of it as, should I worry about where I'm not compared to a girl I'm fukkin, where you got guys that don't even try not even worrying about making anything of themselves and fukkin them with no care.

Why do you worry though? I think that'll answer your question.

 

[Balla]

Because I feel I should be better, I feel I should have a career. Idk how normal or un normal it is to think about this because this is the first time I ever thought about it.

I don't like the idea of a woman having her shyt together and I don't.

Makes me feel like a little boy, I went the wrong route and I'm trying to get shyt together.

Why do you worry though? I think that'll answer your question.

 

[you're NOT "n!ggas"]

Because I feel I should be better, I feel I should have a career. Idk how normal or un normal it is to think about this because this is the first time I ever thought about it.

I don't like the idea of a woman having her shyt together and I don't.

Makes me feel like a little boy, I went the wrong route and I'm trying to get shyt together.

And what does her career/status have to do with you?

 

[Balla]

U right bro, it's just a mindset thing, I feel I have to be on equal grounds or better.

I just feel weak not knowing where I'm going.

And what does her career/status have to do with you?

 

[you're NOT "n!ggas"]

U right bro, it's just a mindset thing, I feel I have to be on equal grounds or better.

I just feel weak not knowing where I'm going.

I was tryna see if the questions would lead to something but its cool. Basically, I think you wanna be on your shyt and have dope woman to go with it. The brehs you're talking about don't care about that, they just want p*ssy and free shyt. That's the difference.

 

[Da_Eggman]

Most of these career bytches work hard and long hours and are stressed out as fucc and still just want a man to fukk her good point blank

Don’t waste time on thinking about it they still just hoes no matter what

 

[Balla]

I just want p*ssy too, but I think the difference is that they know that they won't try to do much, they just living life and say fukk it.

I feel I need to be at least equal with them or making more.

I was tryna see if the questions would lead to something but its cool. Basically, I think you wanna be on your shyt and have dope woman to go with it. The brehs you're talking about don't care about that, they just want p*ssy and free shyt. That's the difference.

 

[Balla]

Tru, I gotta get used to this adult life.

Most of these career bytches work hard and long hours and are stressed out as fucc and still just want a man to fukk her good point blank

Don’t waste time on thinking about it they still just hoes no matter what