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Good thread.

My current fight is still dealing with my mother's death last spring (not COVID) and just not being able to get along with my father--we kinda went at it a few months ago.

I'm watching this right now.



I had my heart to heart with my father last night.

All the traumas, arguments aside,

I just wanted to say I truly love him and left it at that. We cried for a bit.

I recognized that his father could never speak to him like me and him can(about emotions and such)

So I knew that I couldn't expect a man that didn't understand his emotions to be able to treat me with love in a healthy way.

I didn't want one of us to die without anything being said between us. We both have the same life expectancy at this point.
 
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