To the guys: do you encourage your boys to cheat (or vice versa)?

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How do you measure that? Looks?
No, not at all. I'm talking about if she's better in bed, better personality, better cook, better partner, nicer etc.

She has to be at least 3 of these before I tell him that he should go for her, but I'd advise him to break up and take a week off to reaffirm his position before hopping into a relationship with the new girl.
 

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No I don't encourage cheating but I have done dirt in the past so I'm in no position to play that role of voice of reason when it comes to cheating. I also understand that as humans we are attracted to multiple people so I can't condemn my Patna for wanting to smash another lady but if he asks my opinion I will tell him to avoid temptation.
 

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I don't care. They mess around with a lot of here today gone tomorrow type of woman that aren't even sure what they want. I wouldn't purposely set them up with women (they meet a lot of women in their profession as is). My best friend fukked up badly with one woman and we all came together to admonish him since she was a ride or die type of woman (very rare). I've spent nights starving with these friends and I'm no one to tell them how to operate in relationships. Vice versa, they wouldn't push women on me as they know Im not the type to cheat nor would i appreciate the chance to.
 

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Nah not with my close friends. Ima hypocrite cuz I've cheated a lot but I've gotten into fist fights with my homies about that shyt..at first it was about cheatin then it just escalated to fightin

But if I know my homie has a good girl, hes not doin that shyt around me or to my knowledge cuz they know how I feel about it.
 

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My friend did subliminally check the girl I was dating back in my early 20s for my own good. We just got back to the apartment and at this time i was a bit of a push over. My friend comes out of his room while we are in the kitchen and he is cheesing. We hear the door close and he mentions that he cheated on his girl and he is throwing that skeleton in the closet :mjgrin:. We all laughed about it but upon further reflection I see why he did that.
 

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I know the bro code thing exists. When your boy is in a relationship, do you enable him to cheat, present 'don't tell' opportunities or even forward women to him?

Do you front with his chick like you are cool with her?

Any stories?

If I see him out and about with another female that is HIS business....NOT mine. That rule doesn't ever shift.

If I see HER out with another dude and I know my dude is a cool cat not cheating? Then I am going to tell him what I saw.

If I see HER out with another dude and I know my dude is cheating as well. Refer to Rule #1
 

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I don't condone or encourage cheating. fukk that shyt, it's bytch made. But I won't force them not to do it if they do because you can't force anyone to do anything. It's up to them to suffer the consequences if they get caught, cause at the end of the day... it's none of my business.
 

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As long as their relationships are legal and consensual, I can't tell em shyt, I've never had that situation before so I guess I have to care the same way about all parties involved

Edit: Cheating ain't good but I'm not gonna involve myself in unneeded drama or be an unwilling intermediate, high school's over
 
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No.

Only time I've ever "helped" a friend is when he did something and I lied for him to his girl. The thing is: his girl was a bytch and treated him like shyt.

Don't know if I'd have lied for him if she was a genuinely nice girl, though. :jbhmm:
 
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