Aggressive and cold approaching to get your numbers up is uniquely an American and Canadian thing.
Most other cultures you meet women more organically. Either from an acquaintance, school or just going about your day and it’s not forced. If you a shy breh you still eat because women understand that not everyman is going to be brave enough to approach.
It’s also not straight fukking after the first date either. Some kind of friendship is formed first and you actually get to know the person.
I can tell you this, as an african breh that lives in Europe, thats a big problem as well.
We're more in our own bubbles socially compared to America. Cold approaches is seen as "strange" here. So unless you GOT acquaintances with single females you're gonna end up alone and single.