What’s the best thing you’ve done to get out of the doghouse with your girl?

[Warren Moon]

Yo boy is in trouble .


Went out last night, got a small lil section. Ex from like 3 years ago was there. She stopped by the section at the beginning of the night. I gave her a lil side hug and that was it.

Hour and a half later after a few Henny cokes . She was dancing all over me. That was it though


My Girl texted me this morning and I asked if I needed to tell her something. I said no. She responded with a video of me getting twerked on.

I said I was sorry. She’s not even mad about the dancing just the lying.


How have y’all gotten out of the doghouse? I need some good and solid suggestions

 

[Turbulent]

Live you life like a sitcom brehs

Are you sleeping on the couch too?


What you do is you apologize sincerely without making excuses. Then you move on. If she still bringing it up, you ask her if she's going to be able to forgive and move on. If she says she not sure you tell her that in this case, it's better you part ways and you are sorry but you can't take back what happened.

This relationship shyt is simple (as long as you are not married)

 

[sayyestothis]

Just be honest with her man. Communicate. If it's your girl u deserve it to her.

Shell get over quick.

 

[Voice of Reason]

How did she get the video

 

[97Pac]

 

[Warren Moon]

How did she get the video

her friend. Who I knew was there

I said hi to her earlier in the night, I just got drunk af

 

[Serious]

flowers, poetry slam, dinner = sex all night.

 

[Warren Moon]

Live you life like a sitcom brehs

Are you sleeping on the couch too?


What you do is you apologize sincerely without making excuses. Then you move on. If she still bringing it up, you ask her if she's going to be able to forgive and move on. If she says she not sure you tell her that in this case, it's better you part ways and you are sorry but you can't take back what happened.

This relationship shyt is simple (as long as you are not married)

naw we don’t live together. I can only think of flowers and dinner to say sorry

 

[Stir Fry]

Just be honest and just let her know that's as far as it went. Place some of the blame on the alcohol.

 

[Voice of Reason]

her friend. Who I knew was there

I said hi to her earlier in the night, I just got drunk af

Self inflicted L

 

[Voice of Reason]

Now she has her friend in you alls business you might have to hold this L for a long while.

 

[J.E.T.S]

I once fukked up bad.

I did anger management and got in church heavy to fix me within.

She left the house for a month and came back.

 

[Turbulent]

naw we don’t live together. I can only think of flowers and dinner to say sorry

Flowers and dinner? Like i said, stop living your life like this is a tv show. Just have a talk with her, tell her you are sorry about not telling her what happened at the club. Tell her you didn't think it was a big deal but thinking back you can understand her point of view. Let her get off her chest whatever she needs. Say you understand. Don't argue or debate on technicalities. Don't say you agree. Say you understand. When it's done, say something vague like it's good that both of you are communicating more. Then never mention it again. No flowers, no fancy dinner, nothing. If she brings it up again, check her on it.

 

[Swirv]

Blame the alcohol.

 

[TAYLONDO SAMSWORTHY]

Live you life like a sitcom brehs

Are you sleeping on the couch too?


What you do is you apologize sincerely without making excuses. Then you move on. If she still bringing it up, you ask her if she's going to be able to forgive and move on. If she says she not sure you tell her that in this case, it's better you part ways and you are sorry but you can't take back what happened.

This relationship shyt is simple (as long as you are not married)

Terrifying how much this sounds like my exact thoughts.