So I was over at one of my home boy's house chilling this evening, cooking up BBQ and throwing back a couple drinks. We big relaxing going back and forth about this and that, and one of my boy's got to talking about Ronda Rousey and how she keeps talking about she could take May weather in a real fight.
We go back and forth on it for a bit, and my nikka is like "yo the only time women really want to get beat up and disrespected is in the bed room", all of em was like fukking right. One of my friends was like "I could probably go to jail for some of the shyt that these chicks want me to do them".
Now this nikka is swole, about 6 foot and 215 straight muscle, he got to telling us random stories of how he had chicks passing out and wanting bruises left on them. He was like he doesn't even know whats its like to have regular sex anymore.
So he downs more crown and this nikka starts crying like boo hoo'n. I'm like Wooahhh whats going on here why is this dude full out crying man, is he like about to tell us some hardcore stuff. So he's like man I love these hoes but there's something wrong with me and them. "I just want to love one chick" I just want a regular chick dude, but I'm to messed up. We all to messed up.
Normally, there would be on of us laughing and clowning the situation, but I dont know if this all made us think or what. We all kinda sat back in shock, because this is dude that really slay's chicks when we out like its nothing for him.
So we are like lay him on the couch and he's crying about how he's messed up and he does it for them.
So me and my homies go back outside and start to chop it up a bit about what just happen and we all have pretty much the same experiences. As of lately there are no women that just like to have sex, they all want to be choked, slapped, gagged, Bruised up, or in some form of pain.
I even thought back to the coli a bit, there a more than a few threads about "sexually acts" and I dont think there is a woman that's not a virgin that has said they want love to be made to them. Its all throw me against the wall, pin me down and take it how you want when you want.
When did this really start happening? I mean I know its kind of recent, there was a time when women actually wanted you to make love to them more than put them in choke holds and dominate them. I think there is a time and place for it all....but all the time, tonight really made me think.
Dont get me wrong, I rock with it all. But it really got me to thinking on a couple different levels. The last woman I was with wasn't into that hardcore sex, she was a freak but you wasn't about to choke her out or shame her. She just didn't get down like that... Along with that her personality and his kinda reflected that, she's make over 6 figure's. Very strong yet humble and a strong sense of self respect and accomplishment in her work and her self.
Are most women who are really really into being dominated from a troubled background or just have a troubled history? (ladies fell free to answer honestly) Are they still looking for something in life, or feel they need to be punished.
Every woman wants a man to beat it up good, so im not speaking on getting rough. But when you can't get off to anything else there might just be a problem. If you break down into tears after some drinks, there might be a problem.
TLDR; When did women really start wanting to get beat up in the bed room and do you think its stems from deeper issues?
We go back and forth on it for a bit, and my nikka is like "yo the only time women really want to get beat up and disrespected is in the bed room", all of em was like fukking right. One of my friends was like "I could probably go to jail for some of the shyt that these chicks want me to do them".
Now this nikka is swole, about 6 foot and 215 straight muscle, he got to telling us random stories of how he had chicks passing out and wanting bruises left on them. He was like he doesn't even know whats its like to have regular sex anymore.
So he downs more crown and this nikka starts crying like boo hoo'n. I'm like Wooahhh whats going on here why is this dude full out crying man, is he like about to tell us some hardcore stuff. So he's like man I love these hoes but there's something wrong with me and them. "I just want to love one chick" I just want a regular chick dude, but I'm to messed up. We all to messed up.
Normally, there would be on of us laughing and clowning the situation, but I dont know if this all made us think or what. We all kinda sat back in shock, because this is dude that really slay's chicks when we out like its nothing for him.
So we are like lay him on the couch and he's crying about how he's messed up and he does it for them.
So me and my homies go back outside and start to chop it up a bit about what just happen and we all have pretty much the same experiences. As of lately there are no women that just like to have sex, they all want to be choked, slapped, gagged, Bruised up, or in some form of pain.
I even thought back to the coli a bit, there a more than a few threads about "sexually acts" and I dont think there is a woman that's not a virgin that has said they want love to be made to them. Its all throw me against the wall, pin me down and take it how you want when you want.
When did this really start happening? I mean I know its kind of recent, there was a time when women actually wanted you to make love to them more than put them in choke holds and dominate them. I think there is a time and place for it all....but all the time, tonight really made me think.
Dont get me wrong, I rock with it all. But it really got me to thinking on a couple different levels. The last woman I was with wasn't into that hardcore sex, she was a freak but you wasn't about to choke her out or shame her. She just didn't get down like that... Along with that her personality and his kinda reflected that, she's make over 6 figure's. Very strong yet humble and a strong sense of self respect and accomplishment in her work and her self.
Are most women who are really really into being dominated from a troubled background or just have a troubled history? (ladies fell free to answer honestly) Are they still looking for something in life, or feel they need to be punished.
Every woman wants a man to beat it up good, so im not speaking on getting rough. But when you can't get off to anything else there might just be a problem. If you break down into tears after some drinks, there might be a problem.
TLDR; When did women really start wanting to get beat up in the bed room and do you think its stems from deeper issues?