Why are women complaining about sub par sex if it's free?

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:cashier: We actually put forth the effort at my establishments.
this is their reaction every time they over cook something to the point of it burning
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true shyt :salute:



and it don't even have to be money... i've had a girl surprise me with a banging ass dinner... or just start rubbing my back out the blue... or come home with some drinks... or tell me to call the fellas up and invite them over to hang out... or call my name and i walk in the room and she got a blunt already rolled up


and all i can think of is.... damn, my baby loves me... i'm bout to fukk the shyt out of her tonight :takedat:



and that's when i go all the way the fukk out




meanwhile these lazy bytches be like "yo what you doing wednesday. i'm trying to come over and get some dikk" :usure:



they get that normal shyt... bust a nut... ok here's the remote, i'm going to sleep.. type shyt

No lies told. :wow:

These chicks know I'm an Indian Giver when it comes to being taken care of. :shaq:

If she calls me over, lulls me with some homecooked, feed a breh and smothers him with some affection she know when I pull the panties down we going 3rounds 'cause she know I'm with it. :jawalrus:

In the morning after going at it again she waking up to breakfast in bed with a restocked fridge and larder and we keep the party going :banderas:

If you attracting mediocre Sex on the reg, you Prolly got self esteem problems and lay prey to self serving deviants. And I'm sure you ain't getting paid too, which is Plusbad. :francis:
 

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No lies told. :wow:

If you attracting mediocre Sex on the reg, you Prolly got self esteem problems and lay prey to self serving deviants. And I'm sure you ain't getting paid too, which is Plusbad. :francis:
@Imperfect Perfectionista @Prima Donna @Booksnrain @Fun Sized Psycho have y'all encountered this or lackluster performances where you weren't fully engaged with the person on a mental level?

@Kant @Coco since y'all are the virgins of the coli.. does this thread open your eyes to a less than talked about dynamic (the male drive to appreciate and reciprocate acts of kindness)
 

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Men and women view sex differently. Men want sex for the sake of having sex. Even if it's bad he's happy because he got laid.

Women don't care for sex like that. We want it to either feel really good in our bodies or really good in our heads. Sex for sex's sake feels like nothing, like rubbing two fingers together- boring, bland, disappointing and sad.

That's why there's such a weird discrepancy here. This forum always says that when a girl has sex with a guy, he wins because he "still fukked :umad:". In our minds this makes no sense. What good is having sex if it sucks?
 

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@Imperfect Perfectionista @Prima Donna @Booksnrain @Fun Sized Psycho have y'all encountered this or lackluster performances where you weren't fully engaged with the person on a mental level?

@Kant @Coco since y'all are the virgins of the coli.. does this thread open your eyes to a less than talked about dynamic (the male drive to appreciate and reciprocate acts of kindness)
For me sex is more than just physical sensation. The actual sex doesn't have to be mind blowing, if I love him. I will enjoy the intimacy to a degree regardless.
I made a mistake when I was younger with my 1st boyfriend by turning the channels on the tv while he was trying to do his thing and he got so mad, he left because he was offended.
I actually believe I was trying to mute the tv. I didn't get it at first. But he explained how it was offensive and that never happened again.

I don't just have random casual sex either so there has to be a foundation there from jump, or it won't work or get to that point.
I don't have sex with guys just because they look good or because I'm in the moment.
It's after analyzing his character and what he is about (or at least what I perceive him to be about because we know there are 'actors' who are in for the chase).
Always risky.
If I have sex with a guy, I can't complain because it's not random/pointless.
There's some sort of exclusivity and commitment involved, which relies on trust and that brings comfort.
 

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Men and women view sex differently. Men want sex for the sake of having sex. Even if it's bad he's happy because he got laid.

Women don't care for sex like that. We want it to either feel really good in our bodies or really good in our heads. Sex for sex's sake feels like nothing, like rubbing two fingers together- boring, bland, disappointing and sad.

That's why there's such a weird discrepancy here. This forum always says that when a girl has sex with a guy, he wins because he "still fukked :umad:". In our minds this makes no sense. What good is having sex if it sucks?
but if you're going into these encounters with those high expectations but not really putting in the leg work then what percentage of women are going to really enjoy the sexual encounter?
Since when did men not want sex to make them feel good on a physical level ? :usure:
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I don't just have random casual sex either so there has to be a foundation there from jump, or it won't work or get to that point.
I don't have sex with guys just because they look good or because I'm in the moment.
It's after analyzing his character and what he is about (or at least what I perceive him to be about because we know there are 'actors' who are in for the chase).
Always risky.
If I have sex with a guy, I can't complain because it's not random/pointless.
There's some sort of exclusivity and commitment involved, which relies on trust and that brings comfort.
Do you feel women that are becoming more sex positive and don't mind adding bodies to their count will feel a certain hollowness since there isn't an in depth trust level upon further reflection? Do you have friends that are going through this currently?
 

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For me sex is more than just physical sensation. The actual sex doesn't have to be mind blowing, if I love him. I will enjoy the intimacy to a degree regardless.

I don't just have random casual sex either so there has to be a foundation there from jump, or it won't work or get to that point.
I don't have sex with guys just because they look good or because I'm in the moment.
It's after analyzing his character and what he is about (or at least what I perceive him to be about because we know there are 'actors' who are in for the chase).
Always risky.
If I have sex with a guy, I can't complain because it's not random/pointless.
There's some sort of exclusivity and commitment involved, which relies on trust and that brings comfort.
This.

I really don't have sex with a guy if we're not in some sort of relationship. There was 1 time, and and the sex was 'okay', and it never happened again. I don't really like adding sexual partners for 'pointless sex'

At the bold, I think this is what the guys in the Coli don't get. There's a guy that I'm attracted to, that's attracted to me, and I know I could have sex with him. But I don't want to. Something about him turns me off.
 

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but if you're going into these encounters with those high expectations but not really putting in the leg work then what percentage of women are going to really enjoy the sexual encounter?
Since when did men not want sex to make them feel good on a physical level ? :usure:
@skeetsinternal @Geoffrey_Chaucer

Do you feel women that are becoming more sex positive and don't mind adding bodies to their count will feel a certain hollowness since there isn't an in depth trust level upon further reflection? Do you have friends that are going through this currently?
Yeah. I have some female fam & 'friends' who get around. I do think times are changing with women and not giving shyt about body counts. Most chicks my age have had around 15-20 partners at least from what I've noticed. Many ppl think I'm lying about my body count because it's rare to them. Look at all these dating apps too. The guys are smashing these women immediately then dodging them. The clubs. Vacations. Lots of casual sex/fun. 'yolo'
 
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