Woman calls her brothers to deal with abusive boyfriend - - both end up dying

[Buckeye Fever]

Women, especially Black women, if a man is beating on you, call the police FIRST.

All that bullshît about "we police ourselves" or "don't let the laws in our business" is dumb. It leads to stuff like this.

"I'ma call my brothers!!!!"

Then both of them end up gettin' smoked smh

 

[ThatTruth777]

Dr.T Hasan Johnson talked about this dynamic before, had a term for it I can't remember

 

[DaHNIC82]

And watch she go back with the nikka

 

[bnew]

If he can get an attorney, at best he can claim stand your ground or at worst, it’s reduced to second-degree.

The part that’s being skated over is they came over and jumped him in his home.

he left, possibly armed himself then came back so I think that defense won't work.

if they came to jump him, why did he leave and go back after reaching his vehicle when he could have called the police?

if they were squaring up to fight him when they opened the door why did they find blood near a couch and inside a closet?

 

[The Burger King]

Dr.T Hasan Johnson talked about this dynamic before, had a term for it I can't remember

Proxy Violence

 

[CodeBlaMeVi]

he left, possibly armed himself then came back so I think that defense will work.

if they came to jump him, why did he leave and go back after reaching his vehicle when he could have called the police?

if they were squaring up to fight him when they opened the door why did they find blood near a couch and inside a closet?

It’s his home. The home is his ground to stand on.

Now, imagine you are ran out of your home through violent means. I know it is rooted in DV why the conflict happened but let’s keep going. How would you feel about it? Do you think police are going to jet over to get you back into your dwelling? Not likely.

He’s obviously emotional and wasn’t thinking straight. I’m strictly speaking from a law standpoint so it easy to think rationally when you’re not in.

 

[WesCrook]

......

 

[The Burger King]

I had a friend who did this in HS, he was a senior at the time and I was a freshman off at college.

His dyke ass sister was basically running off at the mouth and some Mexican dude called her a bytch.

He told me what he was going to do, I told him it was a bad idea. He confronted the dude anyway and beat his ass.

He got charges put on him. Fortunately he was ahead in most of his classes and they basically allowed him to just stay home the rest of the semester and still graduate.

But while he was fighting the charges, his sister wouldn’t even do anything he asked to help make his situation easier.

Brehs need to realize these bytches that constantly put you in harms way because of their ego don’t really give a fukk about you.

I’ve dated women who had guys catcall or disrespect them out in public or at parties and I didn’t find out until way later on.

And they always told me they didn’t tell me because they didn’t want me to potentially do something to get myself locked up and that it wasn’t that serious.

A woman who truly respects you will think that way.

 

[WesCrook]

Women, especially Black women, if a man is beating on you, call the police FIRST.

All that bullshît about "we police ourselves" or "don't let the laws in our business" is dumb. It leads to stuff like this.

"I'ma call my brothers!!!!"

Then both of them end up gettin' smoked smh

This happens a lot in segmented Black families. You got one side of the family (usually uppity/bourgeois) that doesn't really fux with another side because they may be more hood, poor, or whatever. However when one of the uppity members get jammed up, they are quick to call Deon from the row houses.....and she ain't talked to him in 2 years.

"Imma have my cousin to come f*** you up"

 

[3rdWorld]

Rest in Peace Gianni and Jaheim.

 

[Sterling Archer]

Did you not read? The brother and boyfriend got into an argument while they were over the apartment. She didn't call them over there for a fight.

Thats that man's home he shares with her. Every context given about why they were there suggests they came for an altercation. The actions they took while he and the girlfriend were having a verbal argument shows they came for an altercation since they jumped him while he was talking to her. Not hitting her but talking. So she either called them to come or youre saying they just showed up unannounced and uninvited and she let them in their house which also still constitutes her putting them in harms way. There is no other way to spin it.

 

[Phitz]

is that the case where she tried to get her brothers to kill her sidepiece and he got off, or is there a different one?

I think so

 

[SupaHotIce]

They choose to be in those situations, and more often than not, antagonize them until that point

Never get involved in domestic issues

 

[Strapped]

 

[BuckFilly]

Thank God my sisters are ugly.

RIP though.

What’s their ig?