Woman crushed by online dating -Asks Reddit Am I Ugly? (PHOTOS)(Update: she joined the coli pg 88)

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What's dating in seattle like ?

I swear online dating/social media has ruined everything.

10 years ago this woman would have been seen as a normal sister next year door.

Now with chicks with heavy makeup etc etc normal looking chicks like her have nowhere in the dating poll.

never been to seattle or dated there.

but in any city that has a small say black population as a black woman if you want to date a black man you have struggles.

Have to deal with the other few black women that want black men, have to deal with those few black men being the prize and other races wanting to date them, etc. etc.
 

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never been to seattle or dated there.

but in any city that has a small say black population as a black woman if you want to date a black man you have struggles.

Have to deal with the other few black women that want black men, have to deal with those few black men being the prize and other races wanting to date them, etc. etc.

Yea, she mentioned she is only into 'brown men like me' (her) so maybe that's it....
 

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But online dating is not for the faint of heart. Lots of competition online.
 

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You know, not everyone goes through life receiving validation..... If she is rejected time and time again, I can see her questioning herself....

You sound very insensitive @Theraflu

But let a dude do the same thing after repeated rejection and you'd tell him to "man up" and wouldn't view yourself as being insensitive.:umad:
 

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Yea, she mentioned she is only into 'brown men like me' (her) so maybe that's it....

see exactly

it would be like if you as a black man were only interested in black women, then your job takes you to portland maine

According to the 2010 American Census Bureau Estimates, the city's population was 85.0%White (83.6% non-Hispanic White alone), down from 96.6% in 1990, 4.1% Black or African American, 0.9% American Indian and Alaska Native, 3.5% Asian

you'd be frustrated and complaining as well
 
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