unrealistic expectations

:jbhmm: We ALL want love & appreciation from the opposite sex. If you say you don't, you're either lying, or dealing with deep seated depression. We like to go back & forth about people on social media having unrealistic standards, but what are YOU looking for in a potential lover?:mjgrin: For...

Since there are so many claims that women, especially black women have unrealistically high standards, what is or was your unrealistic dream man? Example: 6'5, 230lbs, 10 pack abs, 10 inch dikk, jalen rose hairline, Phd, already has his own two cars and home.