10 hours of walking in NYC as a woman

[↓R↑LYB]

i wonder how dudes would act if they were in ATL and having fags out the woodwork trying to holla on the streets

It's happened to me before. I said no thanks, kept it moving, then cried in the car

 

[Arishok]

If this were me, I would have laughed at most of these comments or just said hi back. For the guy that was following her, I just would have hit him with a " you really gon follow me huh?"

Maybe I'd feel different if this were my everyday and a walked rather than rode my bike is a predominately black neighborhood. But I go to a predominately white school, so I don't really have to worry about being cat called at all.

 

[Dank Hill]

fair enough. you live in japan, been to roppongi?? dont you hate those africans that seem to harass you and hassle you to come to their clubs?? so do i tell you its just roppongi and they do that it comes with the territory??

I know you ain't talking to me but I been to roppongi many times and going back this january. Those african that try to pass as americans are funny as hell. They don't bother me at all.

 

[September]

"Dammmmmmmmnnnnnn Ma, how you livin?"


You'd be like

If I didn't know who he was I'd still ignore him. Ugly guys don't have a lock on the catcalling game.

But if I saw him and he'd say that to me I'd probably be off his sheer presence so that's not that best analogy. I'd probably forget to breathe
:Anoai:

 

[Fillerguy]

One guy was following her around five minutes. Just trailing her. fukk anyone who says she shouldn't have been bothered by that.

Breh was in limbo. She never responded to his calls and a non-No sometimes translates into a "maybe". The games women play Im sure after about 20 seconds of following her, breh realized it wasnt going to work out so he keep going in the same direction, at the same speed, to save face. Towards the end of that five minutes, shyt got really weird and he started to creep himself out so he bailed even though his stop was another block up. He probably didnt have enough courage to rub one out that day.


Speaking from experience.

 

[Ashley Banks]

But, what if it's the only time the poor guy is ever going to see her

Then he can try and talk to her.

 

[BlackMajik]

Uh oh twitter got ahold of this lol









Even London nikkas commenting lol

 

[↓R↑LYB]

A lot of women = Joe DiMaggio.

Joe DiMaggio's two biggest fears:

1. That someone might ask him for his autograph.
2. That no one will ask him for his autograph.


"These men need to leave me alone!"
"Why are men so afraid to approach me???"


That's an oversimplification of a complex problem, admittedly.
But I can't help trolling.

Thank you for contributing to the thread :brehwow:

 

[Tommy Knocks]

I wish there was a -dont talk to women- week. yea girl, you got all dressed up, took 2 hours, did yo hair, your flyest tightest clothes, red bottoms, and all the men in the club be on the dancefloor like

a civil war would start between women. the fly girls would hashtag #slapafeminist #dontbemadyoucantpullthecuteones

 

[Czerka]

i thought the dating ratios were supposed to be favorable for men in NYC. is that a myth. why yall so fukkkin pathetic

 

[YouMadd?]

and so we should change our natural instinct and implement laws because of some mentally scarred women? huh?

what next. someone gets into a car accident, theyre terrified of traffic, so we should make a special lane for them, with rubber guards , like bumper cars. no.

rabbits complaining about foxes hunting them......not going to change natural law. we are programmed to look. some men are more vocal than others. I never had to cat call or play numbers game, but I understand it. not everyone is physically attractive and some people gotta get it how they get it. other than brazil.....places where prostitution and whore houses dont seem to have this problem however, and thats cause the male population have a place to blow off stem..........

$100 says japanese women would love the attention the NYC chicks are getting because god damn japanese men are damn near asexual. they literally dont marry and dont give a shyt about fukking. I dont know if its because of the 'japanese bar' culture or what. but japanese women are DYING for male attention. They actually have male-whore houses for women cause the men aint fukking with them LOL

Wouldn't be the first time we implemented laws that went against our nature... I don't think we should obviously, but, nikkas need to calm the fukk down

Those Japanese women can come to New York... They'd love that cat calls and hellos, but then would have to deal with all the extra male on female interaction that happens in this country, like the male on female violence, and they'd eventually start hating the attention.

You really have to look at it from a women's perspective my dude...

That's what's crazy about this shyt. women don't just see a guy saying hello beautiful or whatever creepy comment. Other shyt happens that adds pts to the scoreboard. It happens so much a lot of times it get lumped together. My homegirl was on the bus, she felt this pressure on her ass like every 20 seconds, she thought it was a bag or some shyt, but it was literally some old Asian dude groping her ass. They basically just add all these situations together, verbal, physical, and it all becomes harassment. A lot of women deal with that shyt, on top of the cat calls and hellos, shyt is irritating after awhile.

What's funny, a actual law would probably find most dudes to be innocent, which is why it would never happen.

Let's be honest....if you are attractive, this law doesn't matter to you

 

[Malta]

If I didn't know who he was I'd still ignore him. Ugly guys don't have a lock on the catcalling game.

But if I saw him and he'd say that to me I'd probably be off his sheer presence so that's not that best analogy. I'd probably forget to breathe
:Anoai:

Come on brehette, if the Catcalling game were an actual market the govt. would need to break up Ugly nikkas Inc. because of the monopoly they have on it

For every 30 dudes that does that, only 1 of them is probably the type of dude most women would actually want.

 

[↓R↑LYB]

Hardly. Its the same response women get when talking about this topic. The blame goes back to us.

No one is blaming you, it's just the occupational hazard of being a woman in a large city. Like someone said earlier, give a few years and men will begin to treat you like you're invisible.

And as someone from NYC, in a city of millions of white men, you mean to tell me only black/hispanic men "street harassed" her

But don't worry black women, eventually this law will get passed. And white men and women will use this law to law to lock you up along side of us. You don't think they gonna let that "sassy black woman" stereotype go to waste don't you

 

[BillBanneker]

It just baffles my mind.
Some women want to set the ground rules for everything.

Who can approach them.
When they can approach them.
Why they can approach them.
How they can approach them.

I had a coworker complain that a guy hit on her as she walked to the office .
You're absolutely right. That guy who said hello to you on the subway during your commute to work was such a piece of shyt. He should have waited until 6pm on Saturday during a 3 minute window at the Pumpkin Patch upstate as your 4 other girlfriends took a bathroom break, and he should have been wearing a brown sport coat with a cotton skinny tie with dark jeans, chukka boots and no more than 18 hours of facial hair growth.

Go fukk yaself.

 

[JAY?]

Leave her alone. If she wants to talk to you she will try toale eye contact and smile.

But then because of street harass.entry laws the man will loon away and stare at his android at which point the female will be like


fukking street harassment laws

fukk that