10 hours of walking in NYC as a woman

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This shyt was ridiculous.

Everyone knows the feeling, even if they don't admit it, when you see that homeless looking dude has his fukking target sights on you and heading your way to sweet talk his way into some coins in your pocket. Yeah there been times I've stopped and gave them something if I have it on me but more times or not I want to be left the fukk alone. If I'm walking about, I'm trying to get from point A to point B. Period.

I imagine this feels the same where you simply want to go about your business and you cann't even do that without someone bothering you. Its not rape but its damn annoying and in some cases creepy (i.e. the guy who followed her for 4 minutes)
 

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Come on brehette, if the Catcalling game were an actual market the govt. would need to break up Ugly nikkas Inc. because of the monopoly they have on it :mjpls:

For every 30 dudes that does that, only 1 of them is probably the type of dude most women would actually want.

Most guys are average.
 

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You shouldn't put your hands on anyone you don't know. :what: I'm pretty sure you would never do that to a man. Let's say a guy is wearing headphones and he dropped his keys or something and you're trying to get his attention but he can't hear you. Would you really grab him by the arm if he didn't hear you? I doubt it.


At this point in life nothing. Been dealing with it for years sometimes I just want to get from point A to point B in peace. But if someone did approach me, I'd say look at how you're approaching the situation. Don't make me feel caged in or uncomfortable. Just approach me like a normal person. I don't know how else to express it.



Gropped? Not that often. Maybe 7-9 times in my life? Which is 7-9 times too many but whatever.
Hate to interrupt but wouldnt initiating convo by saying "hello", "how are you today",.... Be considered approaching you like a normal person???
Maybe its the setting. Walking down a busy street trying to catch the attention of a young lady isnt always the easiest. So maybe if she was in a more controlled setting things would be different... Idk
There was nothing wrong with her saying "hi", "I'm okay" in return......AS SHE KEPT ON WALKING.
I'm sure MOST women would rather someone saying "hello" as oppose to "damn baby, look at that phat ass".

For the people trying can't compare dude walking beside her for 5 min, to someone saying "God bless" lol Smh. One has NOTHING to do with the other
Harassment:patrice:... Black women in the 60's and earlier were lucky as shyt.....
 
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Some harassment exists, ladies.
We get that.

But stop acting like you're being raped just because guys are hitting on you.
That's just a reality of fukking life. If you're attractive, men are going to say things to you.

Lord knows you chics don't ever say a fukking thing to men that you like.

Not true. You don't know what the hell you're talking about because you're not a chick. I'm very friendly, and speak but gotdamn, some dudes are ridiculously intrusive and borderline stalkerish with their approach, ESPECIALLY in when you're alone and walking from the subway or to the bus.
 

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The black and latino dudes know how to tell a gal with BOOMING hips and a great rack what is UP! I wish I had the upbringing to be verbally appreciative of her ENDOWMENTS. If she don't want the catcalls, frump it up a bit. Many of us white guys just sit there and try to cop a look all while pushing our combover back and looking creepy.

I just WISH there was a backshot on this video because I just KNOW that ASS is OUT OF CONTROL on this darling young woman!
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Not true. You don't know what the hell you're talking about because you're not a chick. I'm very friendly, and speak but gotdamn, some dudes are ridiculously intrusive and borderline stalkerish with their approach, ESPECIALLY in when you're alone and walking from the subway or to the bus.
Cool.
So you just pointed out the examples where there is legitimate harassment.

Just like I admitted was a problem in literally the very first fukking sentence I wrote.
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I wish there was a -dont talk to women- week. yea girl, you got all dressed up, took 2 hours, did yo hair, your flyest tightest clothes, red bottoms, and all the men in the club be on the dancefloor like

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a civil war would start between women. the fly girls would hashtag #slapafeminist #dontbemadyoucantpullthecuteones:banderas:

Breh, my girl be telling me how angry her homegirls get when they get dressed up, go out, and NOBODY approaches them. I'm talking angry as fukk at dudes for ignoring them. I sincerely wish the day comes when these broads get their wish and men treat them like we treat other men :russ:
 

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Breh, my girl be telling me how angry her homegirls get when they get dressed up, go out, and NOBODY approaches them. I'm talking angry as fukk at dudes for ignoring them. I sincerely wish the day comes when these broads get their wish and men treat them like we treat other men :russ:
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