10 hours of walking in NYC as a woman

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:dead: these broads got every angle covered
"Inadiquet" @Louisiana Fisher these nikkas coming for the throne.

:smh: at the :flabbynsick: one
 

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no, again, the gay argument is invalid because these women are potentially attracted to me. while I am not potentially (this word seems to be skipping over you), attracted to men. :wtf:

lol there is no potential here for that woman to have been attracted to any of the poors that were hitting on her. actual good looking guys who get women dont randomly do shyt like this in the street.
 

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There are police on every corner of NYC. You can help yourself.
I don't live in NYC, and I don't think street harassment is limited to NYC. I've gotten the hang of voicing my discomfort well, but the 16-21 year old me certainly didn't.
I've mentioned on here before that some of the police and other law enforcement I have come across initiate creepiness themselves and don't stop when I say that I already have a dude. They then ask if they can be put on a reserve list or still "be friends".

One of the top things I miss when my dude moved to another city is being able to grocery shop without being bugged. When he was with me, I could get shopping done without any worry. Now that he is gone, I will get stopped several times in the store by creepers, have to be polite and clear with my responses, decline politely so that I don't get attacked, decline again because they don't get the hint or are aggressive, and then hope to avoid them in the parking lot- only to get harassed there as well by someone else and then worry on my drive home to see if they are following me.
 
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Look at the reply above yours apparently we should just let it go since we're not being raped. It doesn't matter if it makes you feel uncomfortable we just have to accept it because it's just "men being men". :smh:

the next replies will be "appreciate it now because men won't always harass you" "why don't men go to different countries and leave American women alone" basically anything that will make us feel bad for not wanting to be harassed.

What could you offer as a solution
 

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no, again, the gay argument is invalid because these women are potentially attracted to me. while I am not potentially (this word seems to be skipping over you), attracted to men. :wtf:

goes both ways, those guys think they can potentially get her, just like gays think they can potentially get you
 

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I'm asked you if you were ok with the scenario I presented and you're dancing around it and it's pissing me off u annoying ass shythead. Answer me.
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What scenario? A man approaches a women and says things that make her uncomfortable and threatened, feels "harassed", she calls the cops, they arrest him for harassment?

Do I think people should get arrested for shyt like this? No, but I just can't related because I don't approach women like I've never been inside a vagina before, so it a law is changed or cops begin arrests I won't really have anything to worry about, I'd probably try and help my male counterparts stay out of jail :laugh:


 

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I dont believe in the stalking harassing shyt but why are you acting like a ":shaq: Hi" is negative

Then girls complain when a dude isnt upfront :why:
It's uncomfortable. I don't know how else to explain it to you. Having to deal with

":shaq: Damn ma"
":shaq: Hey baby how you doing today?"
":shaq:Such a beautiful thing like you shouldn't look so upset"


constantly. It's so creepy. :pachaha:
 

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I don't live in NYC, and I don't think street harassment is limited to NYC. I've gotten the hang of voicing my discomfort well, but the 16-21 year old me certain didn't.
I've mentioned on here before that some of the police and other law enforcement I have come across initiate creepiness themselves and don't stop when I say that I already have a dude. They then ask if they can be put on a reserve list or still "be friends".

One of the top things I miss when my dude moved to another city is being able to grocery shop without being bugged. When he was with me, I could get shopping done without any worry. Now that he is gone, I will get stopped several times in the store by creepers, have to be polite and clear with my responses, decline politely so that I don't get attacked, decline again because they don't get the hint or are aggressive, and then hope to avoid them in the parking lot- only to get harassed there as well by someone else and then worry on my drive home to see if they are following me.


You need a gun :birdman:
 
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