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Yaboysix

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Bruh, what type of women are y'all dealing with to get pushed over the edge?

Just LEAVE! you saw the issues before, gradually building up...you thought they were gonna go away? Naw
 

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Bruh, what type of women are y'all dealing with to get pushed over the edge?

Just LEAVE! you saw the issues before, gradually building up...you thought they were gonna go away? Naw
Breh its no different than being stuck in a job. Not you specifically but some of yall are acting abit holier than thou when it comes to this. If i looked on your instagram right now I guarantee you have two or three friends going thru hell right now but can't take the time to find better or just be alone.

Some people dont have the freedom to put themselves first. Some people have kids or even debt tied up in their girl. Now could it be me at this point in my life? No, but i certainly understand how it could get to that point.

Yall nikkas never watched the Godfather Part 2? You think Michael wanted to smack his bytch? He went bad.
 

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I don’t give women like that energy AT ALL. I take the air out of the conflict by using the age old tactic that all men should master. Indifference.

Once I see a hint of out of control fukkery I internally hit the


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Ohhh that’s who you are. Now I see. I then remove every trace of her from my life. My presence, social media, phone numbers, pictures, etc. she no longer exists.

That’s what gets them in the end. They want the conflict. The back n forth. Or after they calmed down they may want to reconcile and talk about it. I deny them closure. Women like that are DANGEROUS. Their temporary feelings will get you jammed the fukk up.

Facts, best thing you could do is start no selling their antics.
 

re'up

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This is why some people don’t settle down.

It’s always fresh with that person, you and her always try to look your best when y’all meet up and neither gets too comfortable.

You always try to cater to each others needs to keep the honeymoon phase as Long as possible. I know once I started caring enough to start and argument it was adios

My most memorable fukk friend I never cared enough to start shyt and never once raised my voice Our dynamic was absolutely beautiful. I know she wanted more but I liked it just the way it was. She moved back home and passed away unexpectedly on a trip abroad.RIP baby.

This is a theory I have been thinking about for awhile now. The structure of relationships. The roles within them vs the way you interact initially. My theory would be the structure pushes towards marriage, which dulls all the hotness and romance, but also the kind of mutual respect and genuine adoration.
 

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This is a theory I have been thinking about for awhile now. The structure of relationships. The roles within them vs the way you interact initially. My theory would be the structure pushes towards marriage, which dulls all the hotness and romance, but also the kind of mutual respect and genuine adoration.

Moving in and marriage does tend to change the dynamics. I can’t speak for females but it takes the natural inclination to hunt away from men.

That hunter gene is something deep inside all men since the beginning of time and settling down tend to dim that fyah.

You no longer in hunt mode.
 

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Because when women say that they’ve been abused by multiple men, etc it’s because she “chose wrong” and attracts bad guys.
Same thing applies.

You’re drawn to shytty women.
So are you telling him this for his benefit or because you're looking to a "gotcha?" Because that's childish
 

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It aint hard to tell homies when ya dealing with a toxic chic (same goes for toxic dudes). A chic that likes to argue, aint gonna be much you can do about that. That's insecurity in their nature and you best move on. Any woman that's disrespectful like OP just described is best left behind for some other sucker or simp. It comes to a point where a relationship is no longer an exercise of might. You exhaust --> waste too much energy that could useful elsewhere. You need a partner who will support you and uplift you in your day to day. No one wants a sparring partner masquerading as a girlfriend/boyfriend. Leave toxic shyt alone and find someone who's about that life.
 
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