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How did you find out? :lupe:

Please don't tell me that you were supposed to do something with her on that day and she went off the grid... Please don't tell me that :wow:
Bingo had bought a bunch of shyt for her and had plans on dinner and a movie on some high school romance shyt and she basically ghosted me for a couple days lol
 

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Good entry but I don't feel like it carries the same weight cause one could say it was your fault for engaging in the one night stand. :jbhmm:


Do you have a runner up?
Yeah that was definitely on me. I should've known better :snoop:.

Runner up... :jbhmm: Nothing too grimey comes to mind. Probably got cheated on a few times that I didn't know about but since I've been the one to end every relationship I've ever been in, it's a wash.

Actually... I got strung along in college by a girl for a lot longer than I should've allowed. This girl (who I was head over heels in love with :noah:) had me come pick her up from her house to go to class the night after smashing some dude. He was still there in the morning when I went to pick her up. Technically we weren't together anymore, but that shyt still hurt like a motherfukker.
 

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Basically showed me that being "a perfect gentleman" isn't rewarded out in these streets if you don't stick up for yourself, regardless of much you believe that the key to having a successful relationship and keeping a woman happy is to adore and fawn over her, while neglecting yourself in favour of her happiness and comfort.
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It was the worst thing because I honestly believe as a 17-18 year old youth who had his simp heart broken, that my world had ended after I lost access to her that I was honestly willing to let the nikka that she was with, the one she had left for me, put a bullet in my head after he pulled up after I was talking shyt about him online a few weeks prior (Msn Chatroom days) claiming that I had snagged his bytch, 'cause he was being "mean" to her and I felt my chivalry was being rewarded by being in a relationship with such a glorious creature.
That bytch put me through the paces. Cheated on me relentlessly. Talked shyt to our mutual (online) friends. Eradicated my self esteem. Went up side my head multiple times if I so much as talked/laughed with another female. Cried in my ear until I forgave her, thus perpetuating the cycle of abuse.
I'm glad as fukk It never turned me into some bitter incel or female hating weirdo that had problems extrapolating the bad experience with one woman instead of painting the whole species as what I experienced with that goofy ass broad.


 
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I've never outright confirmed most of the things women have probably done to me that I assume they have. I'll tuck this in a spoiler.

It's not technically confirmed that she cheated but I'll tell the story. She went to augusta georgia on a trip to see her dad who lives out there and she drove. I talked to her thru most of her trip until she went out, she told me she wasn't gonna do no wild shyt and she would check in while she was out. She didn't check in, but I didn't care. Keep in mind she's the type that's always checking me when I'm out and having attitude if I don't tell her what I'm up to, so that was a red flag. Fast forward the following week all of the sudden she was flying back to georgia, claiming shes seeing her dad again. Even went out of her way to share locations to "prove" to me that she wasn't doing anything wild. I wasn't going to check the location but the next night I was chillin wit my nikkas and they was like "hell nah bro check that location I bet she ain't in augusta"

The pin was in atlanta and she was staying at a hotel and not picking up the phone :snoop:

Never spoke of it or her again, cut her off and that was the last of her. She called me like 30 times trying to explain herself but I blocked her and kept it moving

There's other ones including my most recent ex but again, never fully confirmed. I usually don't stick around long enough to let the L sink in, healthier that way :ehh:
 
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