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[O.T.I.S.]

I think it's more of a human thing than a woman thing.

Some people don't respect you until you make them

 

[semicko82]

I think it's more of a human thing than a woman thing.

Some people don't respect you until you make them

 

[ABlackMan]

So being an @$$hole equates to being hard?

In a woman’s mind many equations yield questionable results but yes a woman with no thought will likely see your kindness as softness.

 

[ABlackMan]

I think it's more of a human thing than a woman thing.

Some people don't respect you until you make them

You cannot make people respect you.

 

[Surreal]

Says a lot about the type of women you dealing with

 

[BBG]

One time I cried around my ex cause I got a jumpoff pregnant after her. I thought it was a safe space until I visibly saw the respect she had for me leave her soul don't think I've cried since

 

[Buckeye Fever]

I would send a chick flowers, make her mix r&b cds, etc.

Nothing.

One day, I got frustrated and told her "my being nice to bytches days is ova for. I'm fukkin hoes and sendin em home"

Boom.

Gave me the ass that same night and bout nfl2k5 for me when it dropped that very next day

 

[ThrobbingHood]

You may be conflating being an a$$hole with being assertive.

 

[7th Letter Specialist]

I would send a chick flowers, make her mix r&b cds, etc.

Nothing.

One day, I got frustrated and told her "my being nice to bytches days is ova for. I'm fukkin hoes and sendin em home"

Boom.

Gave me the ass that same night and bout nfl2k5 for me when it dropped that very next day

This was classic

 

[god shamgod]

make sure to tell your current/future daughters & nieces to only entertain these men when they’re older so they can get treated like shyt & be emotionally scarred

 

[O.T.I.S.]

You cannot make people respect you.

Sure…

 

[Buckeye Fever]

This was classic

 

[Sunalmighty]

they've never had a decent man around. they might be fatherless. if they want a schmuck for a man thats gonna be a demon, let em. and don't say jack when you get preggo and that nikka vanish like thanos

seen that one TOO many times. women need guidance like blind rats in a maze

 

[Sunalmighty]

I would send a chick flowers, make her mix r&b cds, etc.

Nothing.

One day, I got frustrated and told her "my being nice to bytches days is ova for. I'm fukkin hoes and sendin em home"

Boom.

Gave me the ass that same night and bout nfl2k5 for me when it dropped that very next day

 

[Higher Tech]

Yall be meeting the most aggressive women. I think yall confuse being a pushover with being kind and you fall into situations where you’re being exploited. Set boundaries and be a man, because everyone will push to see what they can get away with. Not setting boundaries or standards is not you being nice, you’re just being a pushover.