15% of men don't have a close friend

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Men suffer ‘friendship recession’ as 15% are without a single close pal
By Adriana Diaz

July 7, 2021 | 8:12pm

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New research found that nearly one in five American men admit to not having a single close friend.Getty Images
The saddest recession may be among us: the friendship recession.

As the country works to end the pandemic, we are still in the midst of the loneliness epidemic, according to new research.

Nearly 1 in 5 American men admit to not having a single close friend, according to the results of the American Perspectives Survey, conducted by the Survey Center on American Life.

The number of American men without a close friend has jumped five times since 1995, from 3% to 15%, according to the findings, while those claiming to have at least six close friends have plunged by half, from 55% to 27%.

When looking at both men and women, just 59% of Americans can identify one person as their “best friend,” down from 77% in 1990, the poll found

'Friendship recession': 15% of men are without a close pal

Americans have a higher chance of satisfaction with their amount of friends as the number increases, the survey, conducted in May, found. In 1990, 33% of Americans said they had 10 or more close friends, but that number has dropped to just 13%, meaning fewer Americans are satisfied with their friend group.

According to Cigna Health Insurance, 61% of Americans report feeling lonely, with men feeling lonelier than women.

Men are also less likely than women to receive emotional support from their friends, the American Perspectives Survey found, but receive more emotional support when they have female friends.

Of course, men and women both develop and maintain friendships differently, additional research shows. Men’s friendships are most intimate when sharing similarities in involvement in social activities, such as finances, outgoingness and social connection, according to a study published in Adaptive Behavior and Physiology. This varies from women, who are more likely to choose a friend who shares similarities that affect the quality of the relationship itself, such as education, humor and happiness, researchers found.

While loneliness itself may not seem detrimental, a study by the American Psychological Association claimed that the rate of young adults with suicidal thoughts or other suicide-related outcomes increased by 47% between 2008 and 2017.

These staggering statistics of the friendship recession found in the American Perspectives Survey are being attributed to a multitude of cultural-trend changes in the past two decades, including a decline in religious involvement, lower marriage rates and changes in the workplace, that are creating a surge of disconnection.
 

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Americans have a higher chance of satisfaction with their amount of friends as the number increases, the survey, conducted in May, found.
How did they measure satisfaction? Are they equating more friends with happiness.. because if they are :francis:


Friendships are over exaggerated. Not everybody has to be your “friend”, they can simply be acquaintances you fw from time to time or share hobbies with. Having three - five QUALITY friends is good enough.
 

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Your girl could take the place of their close friend. Give a man a few friends to chill with and a woman and he don't need a close friend and he's probably just as happy if not happier than someone with a close friend
 

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How did they measure satisfaction? Are they equating more friends with happiness.. because if they are :francis:


Friendships are over exaggerated. Not everybody has to be your “friend”, they can simply be acquaintances you fw from time to time or share hobbies with. Having three - five QUALITY friends is good enough.

Judging by the pick, satisfaction was measured by determining how many men will put on sweaters and go drink beer with you
 

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Your girl could take the place of their close friend. Give a man a few friends to chill with and a woman and he don't need a close friend and he's probably just as happy if not happier than someone with a close friend

No, that doesn't work like that. A partner is not a friend.

Think about just one small example. Say you want to quit your job to pursue your life dream. Maybe you always wanted to travel the world. You tell your friend about your plan. He will support you one hundred percent. Go do what makes you happy, he'll say. Work and money can always wait.

Now go tell your woman the same thing, she will be liable to murder you. How dare you quit your job, sacrifice financial stability, give up your career, to follow your stupid life dream, she will demand. What about me, what about us? You're so selfish, etc. She will fight you every step of the way.

This is not because women are bad or anything like that. That's not what I'm saying. What I am saying is that your relationship partner will never be your friend, because a relationship is not a friendship. You can walk out of your friends life anytime and walk straight back in when you please. As long as you explain to them before you leave that you are going to pursue your life dream, your friend will be fine. They'll support you even.

You can't do that with your relationship partner. A relationship is never about you, what's best for you, what makes you happy. Instead it's always about us, what's best for us. And that means compromise.
 

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Cut a lot of my friends off. They were dead weight :yeshrug:

Breh a lot of dudes need to get their shyt together first instead of having a bunch of people around for the hell of it. If you’re broke AF and living off your moms, having a crew don’t mean shyt if you depend on someone else for where you lay your head.

a time comes when you gotta be your own damn friend for a while, get your shyt in order and learn how to live like a grown ass man. At the end of the day most dudes just wanna have a decent crib, peace of mind and not be bothered BUT also have a friend or two they can chop it up with here and there.
 
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Breh a lot of dudes need to get their shyt together first instead of having a bunch of people around for the hell of it. If you’re broke AF and living off your moms, having a crew don’t mean shyt if you depend on someone less for where you lay your head.

a time comes when you gotta be your own damn friend for a while, get your shyt in order and learn how to live like a grown ass man. At the end of the day most dudes just wanna have a decent crib, peace of mind and not be bothered BUT also have a friend or two they can chop it up with here and there.




Yep. I used to be that guy who wanted to have a lot of friends around and all of that but I came to value my peace. More people you have around, the greater the chance of fukkery. And I'm done with that at this point in my life.

A lot of people need other folks around cause they're not happy with themselves.

I am very happy with who I am and I love spending time by myself. I get enjoyment from chillin alone and working on my goals.
 
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