The problem with black men, black women, hell, the problem with EVERYONE is that they're too busy pointing out other people's flaws rather than working on their own.
the type of people who gravitate towards you is a reflection of the type of person you are. so guess what, if you're only attracting hoes/thugs/deadbeats/golddiggers etc. while the wifey-types or husband-material people are ignoring you, that's probably because you have a certain quality about you that attracts a certain type of person and repels another.
instead of creating blanket statements and demeaning an entire group to cover up your own failures with the opposite sex, how about taking a long, hard moment of personal self-reflection and honestly ask yourself, "Why do I keep dating a certain type? What is it about me that brings these type of people in?"
There are a lot of threads on here where dudes talk about their requirements and how they only want good women. there's a shytload of websites and magazines where women list their requirements and how they only want a good man. But the question is, do you honestly deserve these so-called good people? What exactly can you bring to the table?
I mean ya'll clown the 300-pound sistas with 2 baby daddies who want a businessman and rightfully so. but if you're 30, with no job and multiple baby mamas yet wondering where all the "good women are" you really have no room to talk