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I feel you homie but it seem that our brothers with all the options in terms of money aren't really picking black women like that.
It's a catch 22 cuz too many black women want the guy who has it all, instead of building with a guy on his way up. There aren't many black men with money to begin with, and when you have money as a man you have more options on who you can date. Alot of those guys with money who choose to date interacially would have dated black women, but when he was on the come up they dissed him. Now he got a chip on his shoulder, and a complex against black women.
 

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No doubt I feel you fam, what do you think about our brothers that are at the top of there game in terms of career education and money. In this society they can have pretty much there pick of the liter and it seems they aren't going for are sisters like that.:yeshrug:

You have to take that whole group under consideration. The overwhelming majority of successful 'Black' men go for 'Black' women, but the media only hypes up the 'swirl' couples.

Even in 'real life' you will rarely see inter-ethnic couples despite claims to the contrary. They're more 'common' now than in years gone by and the reason for that is we're just a more 'tolerant' society as far as that goes. Those couples don't need to hide their relationships anymore. That doesn't negate the indisputable fact that ethnic groups tend to stay within their own group which is a smart thing to do since it lessens social issues in the long run and relationships are difficult enough to maintain without adding more problems to overcome from within and without.
 

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It's a catch 22 cuz too many black women want the guy who has it all, instead of building with a guy on his way up. There aren't many black men with money to begin with, and when you have money as a man you have more options on who you can date. Alot of those guys with money who choose to date interacially would have dated black women, but when he was on the come up they dissed him. Now he got a chip on his shoulder, and a complex against black women.

Not a complex it's common sense, and it's called INTEGRITY, if you forgive the black woman for all that she's done you enabling her reckless dating habits.
Go to that thread by Coli girls...nothing but "eye candy men".

There's this poor simp in the thread tryna school me on emotional intelligence of women "super sayan of the friend-zone" type breh. Then I realized dude dedicated a whole thread to average black women doing their thing....not one of those "Coli" women peeped this dude's thread. They continued posting half naked boy toys "oh girl" etc....not one doctor, lawyer, Ivy Leaguer...that's what turns non-black women on, power!

They be the same women with their broke childlike chump change "heartthrob" and six kids looking tight when a young boss walks by with his white wife whose better educated, more cultured and more money and better looks....

fukk that Nubian queen shyt ...tryna turn these over indulgent strippers and flakes into Eyptian goddesses. She'll rob you blind....I'll take the sister like Tyra Banks in Higher Learning, or Nia Long in Boyz n the Hood. Even Sanaa Lathan in Best Man.
 

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Not a complex it's common sense, and it's called INTEGRITY, if you forgive the black woman for all that she's done you enabling her reckless dating habits.
Go to that thread by Coli girls...nothing but "eye candy men".

There's this poor simp in the thread tryna school me on emotional intelligence of women "super sayan of the friend-zone" type breh. Then I realized dude dedicated a whole thread to average black women doing their thing....not one of those "Coli" women peeped this dude's thread. They continued posting half naked boy toys "oh girl" etc....not one doctor, lawyer, Ivy Leaguer...that's what turns non-black women on, power!

They be the same women with their broke childlike chump change "heartthrob" and six kids looking tight when a young boss walks by with his white wife whose better educated, more cultured and more money and better looks....

fukk that Nubian queen shyt ...tryna turn these over indulgent strippers and flakes into Eyptian goddesses. She'll rob you blind....I'll take the sister like Tyra Banks in Higher Learning, or Nia Long in Boyz n the Hood. Even Sanaa Lathan in Best Man.
When it comes to looks, men are more judgmental than women. There are way more ugly men with pretty women, than ugly women with handsome men. Attractive people attract more people, bottom line. No black women would choose Pretty Ricky on the bus stop over Dr. Ugly in the Bentley. Your only looking at the surface, no race of women are more gold digging than white women. Difference is in how they were raised by their mamas. The black mama says "get what you can, dont settle for no broke man" so black girls go out looking for an immediate payoff. But thats cheap. The white mama says "get with a man on his way to getting money, get married, have kids and if you get tired of him get half in a divorce".
 

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Black women want tupac in a suit.

The problem here is tupac usually doesn't come in a suit and the ones who come in a suit don't want them because most have diarrhoea of the mouth.
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The white mama says "get with a man on his way to getting money, get married, have kids and if you get tired of him get half in a divorce".

Is this not fair? More fair than kill him slow and greater his chances of never "making it out"?.

The former creates better members of society...
 

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hmmmm is it the thug appeal or is it that thugs just have more confidence than the quote nice guys? and if the good guys had more confidence they would see the same results as the thugs?

Nope, he'd be a soft ass "uppity" sell out to her, she'll generate defiance dynamics with him even if he's right, she will respect nothing coming out of his mouth...bust your gun not your brain.
 

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The problem to me is a lot of these brothas who feel slighted by black women they have met in their life need to holla at foreign black women who are raised differently. I never had a lot of problems with American black women in a sexual manner but other things that they do I don´t prefer. I´m on that black latina wave right now and never been happier. But yeah I aint checkin for american white women seriously cause they be on some BS too.
 

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Chris.B said:
Black women want tupac in a suit.

The problem here is tupac usually doesn't come in a suit and the ones who come in a suit don't want them because most have diarrhoea of the mouth.

This is a false representation pandered by the media and lauded as 'fact' by those who don't deal with 'Black' women.

The majority of 'Black' women want a 'Black' man who can take care of himself/business, treats her with respect, and doesn't allow her to walk over him.

That's it.​
 
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