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I use to live above this White couple and ole girl would kirk out on dude every weekend like clock work. I'm pretty sure she would hit him. I would hear her yell and throw things. Once I heard her say "Call the bytch! Call the bytch!" Occasionally he would yell back but not often. I was so happy when they moved.
One of the reasons going back to the States is a must next year.philmonroe
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Don't get why this is so hard to understand esp the bold. Since I'm American maybe its different for people from other cultures but shyt if you are "Americanized" we probably have enough things in common regardless of race to be together. I see it all the time in different women I meet when just like I'm sure y'all do too.
I'm only gonna be loyal to whatever INDIVDUAL female is loyal to me in return. It could be a black woman, it could be a white woman, asian, whatever. I'd prefer to date a black woman due to cultural similarities, but all these blanket statements you guys believe are foolishness. Keep believing all Black women, black men have ur best at heart and ur gonna be severely disappointed and surprised in life.
With respect to this whole issue of black male loyalty, the objective facts have something to say about this supposed flight of black men away from black women and towards white women. This chart comes from 2010 US census data1
So these are the percentages of married men of each racial/ethnic group that have married their own racial/ethnic group:
White: 95.2%
Black: 87.5%
Hispanic: 85.0%
Other: 81.4%
...In other words, the only more "loyal" group than black men is white men. "Others" don't even marry other "others" as often, and there are all kinds of different "others" that would fit that designation (e.g. East Asians, South Asians, American Indians, etc.) A simple explanation for this finding is the sheer number of whites in America relative to other groups. When there are nearly 6 times as many white women to choose from as black women, the odds of any particular male marrying any particular female are necessarily skewed in favor of white women.
And yet, as the first column shows, black men are actually the LEAST white-woman-marrying minority group. Observe the percentage of married men in each racial/ethnic group married to white women:
White: 95.2%
Black: 8.1%
Hispanic: 13.3%
Other: 16.2%
So perhaps we should quit trying to make generalizations about the dating and marital preferences of all black men from looking at Cuba Gooding, Jr. and Tiger Woods.
Works Cited
U.S. Census. (2010). Table FG4. Married couple family groups, by presence of own children/1 in specific age groups, and age, earnings, education, and race and hispanic origin/2 of both spouses: 2010. Retrieved from http://www.census.gov/population/www/socdemo/hh-fam/cps2010.html
So these are the percentages of married men of each racial/ethnic group that have married their own racial/ethnic group:
White: 95.2%
Black: 87.5%
Hispanic: 85.0%
Other: 81.4%
...In other words, the only more "loyal" group than black men is white men. "Others" don't even marry other "others" as often, and there are all kinds of different "others" that would fit that designation (e.g. East Asians, South Asians, American Indians, etc.) A simple explanation for this finding is the sheer number of whites in America relative to other groups. When there are nearly 6 times as many white women to choose from as black women, the odds of any particular male marrying any particular female are necessarily skewed in favor of white women.
And yet, as the first column shows, black men are actually the LEAST white-woman-marrying minority group. Observe the percentage of married men in each racial/ethnic group married to white women:
White: 95.2%
Black: 8.1%
Hispanic: 13.3%
Other: 16.2%
So perhaps we should quit trying to make generalizations about the dating and marital preferences of all black men from looking at Cuba Gooding, Jr. and Tiger Woods.
Works Cited
U.S. Census. (2010). Table FG4. Married couple family groups, by presence of own children/1 in specific age groups, and age, earnings, education, and race and hispanic origin/2 of both spouses: 2010. Retrieved from http://www.census.gov/population/www/socdemo/hh-fam/cps2010.html
Works Cited thoughWith respect to this whole issue of black male loyalty, the objective facts have something to say about this supposed flight of black men away from black women and towards white women. This chart comes from 2010 US census data1
So these are the percentages of married men of each racial/ethnic group that have married their own racial/ethnic group:
White: 95.2%
Black: 87.5%
Hispanic: 85.0%
Other: 81.4%
...In other words, the only more "loyal" group than black men is white men. "Others" don't even marry other "others" as often, and there are all kinds of different "others" that would fit that designation (e.g. East Asians, South Asians, American Indians, etc.) A simple explanation for this finding is the sheer number of whites in America relative to other groups. When there are nearly 6 times as many white women to choose from as black women, the odds of any particular male marrying any particular female are necessarily skewed in favor of white women.
And yet, as the first column shows, black men are actually the LEAST white-woman-marrying minority group. Observe the percentage of married men in each racial/ethnic group married to white women:
White: 95.2%
Black: 8.1%
Hispanic: 13.3%
Other: 16.2%
So perhaps we should quit trying to make generalizations about the dating and marital preferences of all black men from looking at Cuba Gooding, Jr. and Tiger Woods.
Works Cited
U.S. Census. (2010). Table FG4. Married couple family groups, by presence of own children/1 in specific age groups, and age, earnings, education, and race and hispanic origin/2 of both spouses: 2010. Retrieved from http://www.census.gov/population/www/socdemo/hh-fam/cps2010.html
Don't take this as an insult but I do feel the reason many Americans (even though the percentage is still small) marry out is because they have no culture to preserve.
When you want to keep your culture alive and thriving for the next generation and generations to come marrying someone of the same race is essential, or at least marrying someone who will adopt the norms of your culture, such as how a non-Jewish woman has to convert to Judaism to marry a Jewish man.
People come to the U.S. and either they or their children assimilate to American popular culture which changes all the time. There is no real foundation of what American culture is so there is nothing to pass on.
philmonroe
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Why would I take it as an insult when your basically saying the same thing Im saying? We agree but even still you can raise a kid to have your culture alive and be apart of it because from what I see the basic stuff is usually similar. Its not some foreign concept where people like
so that why I disagree with that. The language and traditions can both be celebrated if you so choose only if its a religious difference will there be big problems potentially IMO.Why would I take it as an insult when your basically saying the same thing Im saying? We agree but even still you can raise a kid to have your culture alive and be apart of it because from what I see the basic stuff is usually similar. Its not some foreign concept where people like
Think of it like this.
What will North West be passing onto her children? She is 1/3 Armenian and 1/2 black American? Kim K is 1/2 white American and 1/2 Armenian, I'm not sure what traditions Robert Kardashian passed onto her but she is more Americanized than anything else. If Kim K had an Armenian mother chances are she would be more steeped the Armenian culture and want to marry an Armenian or Arabic man. Chances are North West will know little of her Armenian heritage and will possibly go on to marry an American man.
The Armenia culture on Kim K's side of the Kardashian family will have died, unless someone decides to teach North West traditions, or she decides to research it and actively preserve it by teaching her children about it.
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With respect to this whole issue of black male loyalty, the objective facts have something to say about this supposed flight of black men away from black women and towards white women. This chart comes from 2010 US census data1
So these are the percentages of married men of each racial/ethnic group that have married their own racial/ethnic group:
White: 95.2%
Black: 87.5%
Hispanic: 85.0%
Other: 81.4%
...In other words, the only more "loyal" group than black men is white men. "Others" don't even marry other "others" as often, and there are all kinds of different "others" that would fit that designation (e.g. East Asians, South Asians, American Indians, etc.) A simple explanation for this finding is the sheer number of whites in America relative to other groups. When there are nearly 6 times as many white women to choose from as black women, the odds of any particular male marrying any particular female are necessarily skewed in favor of white women.
And yet, as the first column shows, black men are actually the LEAST white-woman-marrying minority group. Observe the percentage of married men in each racial/ethnic group married to white women:
White: 95.2%
Black: 8.1%
Hispanic: 13.3%
Other: 16.2%
So perhaps we should quit trying to make generalizations about the dating and marital preferences of all black men from looking at Cuba Gooding, Jr. and Tiger Woods.
Works Cited
U.S. Census. (2010). Table FG4. Married couple family groups, by presence of own children/1 in specific age groups, and age, earnings, education, and race and hispanic origin/2 of both spouses: 2010. Retrieved from http://www.census.gov/population/www/socdemo/hh-fam/cps2010.html
My mans even threw in a works cited page to shyt on y'all fukk nikkas even harder
mcdivit85
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This thread is funny for several reasons. I read this stuff and it sounds like The Coli is filled with Calrton Banks a## n#ggas with Bill O'Reilly minds still mad about the black chick who took his lunch money and treatedTyrone to McDonald's after he smashed her under the bleachers 10 years ago after gym class.
Forgetting the fact that he grew up in a black neighborhood, so he went to a black high school, which is why he crushing on a black chick in the first place. As if this same thing couldn't/wouldn't have happened if he was dating some white chick on Long Island.
@ these Coli dudes
Anyway, the level of insecurity I've read on The Coli is amazing. One of my favorites, which was highlighted in this thread as a reason to date out:
"Well, black chicks aint really loyal anyway.....they only date black dudes because they have a lack of options from non-black dudes"
What kind of sh#t is that? So, dudes going to use that as an excuse to date non-black chicks because "black women would do it too"? So, every black dude is only one white guy away from sharing his girl? Black women only date black dudes because Todd won't claim her in public?
Yall n#ggas, man. Are there bed wenches who might fall into this? Yes, but dudes walking around thinking
every time they're with their chick and see a cac 
My second favorite is:
"Black women only want (insert) kind of dude.....they don't want no stand up dude.....any good dude gets cheated and mistreated"
This tells me dudes have been spending too much time watching MTV Jams and not enough time walking the streets. Not to mention, dudes sound like Bill O'Reilly with that talk.
Dudes assume that every black dude with his hat backwards is a thug or street dude, which is not even close to true. Most black dudes are NOT street dudes, have never been to jail, never shot anyone and have never sold a narcotic. But according to these dudes, every black chick is waiting for that one "Tupac in a business suit" to sweep them off their feet after stomping a dude out in the alley in his Allen Edmonds wingtips.
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Forgetting the fact that he grew up in a black neighborhood, so he went to a black high school, which is why he crushing on a black chick in the first place. As if this same thing couldn't/wouldn't have happened if he was dating some white chick on Long Island.
@ these Coli dudesAnyway, the level of insecurity I've read on The Coli is amazing. One of my favorites, which was highlighted in this thread as a reason to date out:
"Well, black chicks aint really loyal anyway.....they only date black dudes because they have a lack of options from non-black dudes"
What kind of sh#t is that? So, dudes going to use that as an excuse to date non-black chicks because "black women would do it too"? So, every black dude is only one white guy away from sharing his girl? Black women only date black dudes because Todd won't claim her in public?
Yall n#ggas, man. Are there bed wenches who might fall into this? Yes, but dudes walking around thinking
every time they're with their chick and see a cac My second favorite is:
"Black women only want (insert) kind of dude.....they don't want no stand up dude.....any good dude gets cheated and mistreated"
This tells me dudes have been spending too much time watching MTV Jams and not enough time walking the streets. Not to mention, dudes sound like Bill O'Reilly with that talk.
Dudes assume that every black dude with his hat backwards is a thug or street dude, which is not even close to true. Most black dudes are NOT street dudes, have never been to jail, never shot anyone and have never sold a narcotic. But according to these dudes, every black chick is waiting for that one "Tupac in a business suit" to sweep them off their feet after stomping a dude out in the alley in his Allen Edmonds wingtips.
Welcome to The Coli
Peace
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