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[thoushallhustle]

maybe thats why the black community is so fukked up because we condone beating the brakes off helpess children and joke like its okay when really its not. An occasional swat on the behind is fine SOMETIMES but hitting your child with objects?

My son is a bebes kid but I only resort to pops on the hand when he does something dangerous. Alot of parents take their stress out on their kids when they whoop them and its sad.

 

[muse]

I was an angel. The worst punishment i got, my mom slapped my hands for lying (~7), my dad slapped my face for prank phone calls (~13), and my mom took my cell phone away (~12) for grades and other stuff? She would curse at me literally every year since like 4th grade until i was a jr cuz my first quarter report card would be horrible then i would always bring my grades up. It was a big deal because my mother NEVER curses so i felt really bad and that i disappointed her (thats a feeling you do not want from your parents). But it happened every year, Im like "you already know the routine, this is getting old now lady".

I dont think my parents were whooped so they didnt really physically discipline us. Got no threats had no sore behind didnt develop panic attacks at the sight of a belt didnt have to fetch my own torture device or had my favorite toys used against me

My father slapped my sister maybe more than once, and they still had and have a great relationship. I held a grudge against my father for years cuz of that shyt, hell i still call his ass father that evolved out of that situation, daddy dont even feel right anymore

Im no where near where i wanted to be at this age, but my parents have absolutely no reason to regret that one time they didnt whoop me when they should have, im a great child, damn near perfect

 

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[Ronnie Lott]

Parents who beat their kids are bad parents

 

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[london]

How exactly did this happen ?

lmao I dont even know

 

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[NSSVO]

I thank my pops.

 

[Ronnie Lott]

you can definitely make a case for that. I would say the occassional "correction" here and there is necessary tho :ucme:

I'm all for stern discipline. But the fact that we have grown ass men and women who have see no issue with assaulting a child that is 3-12 years old with extension cords, belts, shoes and open slaps until the child is terrified and traumatized for life is a huge problem.

The fact that society says that it IS NOT ok if I smack the shyt out of my wife, but society at large sees it ok if I smack my 8 year old son

 

[sang_bleu]

i can't even tell you the abuse African parents inflict on their children

man i have heard shocking stories
my cac ass only got a timeout and a few smacks

 

[Regine Hunter]

but it made us bulletproof tho

but we all soft on the inside though
you can be a grown ass adult and your african father can say something that can make you be like but you better not react.