3 Women Dine then Dash at famous black owned Chicago restaurant after devouring Wings and Alfredo. Then brag about it on social media

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Jesus…. I love my people man, but sometimes, a sizable portion of us make it kinda hard for me to…. Getting tired of foolish stories like this…. Back in my teens and 20’s, shyt like this would have been funny to me and I woulda had hella jokes for it….

Now, well into my 30’s, I just dont have the patience for shyt like this anymore and I hate how it makes us look as a people. Back when I used to be a bartender/waiter part time when I was younger, I would work with hella servers who hated having black customers, and I always took up for me people or gave those servers the side eye for being self hating or racist towards us, but when I look back on it, SOME of them, I can’t be mad…. I have endless stories of young black folks walking out on checks without paying and some paying but not leaving much of a tip… and some not leaving a tip AT ALL not giving a damn that that is someone’s livelihood that they’re toying with….. shyt ain’t cool bro

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I have endless stories of young black folks walking out on checks without paying and some paying but not leaving much of a tip… and some not leaving a tip AT ALL not giving a damn that that is someone’s livelihood that they’re toying with….. shyt ain’t cool bro
Breh, that’s why I can’t defend this anymore. There’s way too many degenerates in our community and we can’t even call them out.

Look at the Phylicia Rashad thread. You call out how a lot of women don’t carry themselves with class, and the first thing they say “but she defended a rapist!”

There are CACs that will CAC no matter what. Then there are those white folk who are in the middle and they end up becoming prejudiced because of so many personal anecdotes.

How can I be mad at them when they encounter low lives like those in the OP constantly? This is why I give up.
 

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Breh, that’s why I can’t defend this anymore. There’s way too many degenerates in our community and we can’t even call them out.

Look at the Phylicia Rashad thread. You call out how a lot of women don’t carry themselves with class, and the first thing they say “but she defended a rapist!”

There are CACs that will CAC no matter what. Then there are those white folk who are in the middle and they end up becoming prejudiced because of so many personal anecdotes.

How can I be mad at them when they encounter low lives like those in the OP constantly? This is why I give up.
Bro you talking facts…. You can’t even call a spade a spade when it comes to the black community… I love us but how can we continue to defend degenerates like this with a straight face??? it’s always an excuse why we doing some dysfunctional shyt, it’s always some propaganda at work that’s against us…. Maybe SOMETIMES…..but the other 60% of the time it’s just US… we bringing the bullshyt on ourselves… so many people claim to be pro black but don’t even got the heart to call out our own people when thy are making the rest of us look bad.

There are definitely TONS of racist white folks who are going despise black folks no matter how great we are…. But you do have some who initially had no quarrels with us but after so many negative personal experiences they have been handed, end up forming less than flattering opinions of us… can you really blame someone if that’s all they’ve been exposed to…. Same goes for a black person who’s only been exposed to bigoted white folks… they can only form an opinion on what they’ve seen first hand.
 

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Id love to see that girls account. Im sure there’s at least a few posts on broke men and what she won’t settle for
 

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Breh, that’s why I can’t defend this anymore. There’s way too many degenerates in our community and we can’t even call them out.

Look at the Phylicia Rashad thread. You call out how a lot of women don’t carry themselves with class, and the first thing they say “but she defended a rapist!”

There are CACs that will CAC no matter what. Then there are those white folk who are in the middle and they end up becoming prejudiced because of so many personal anecdotes.

How can I be mad at them when they encounter low lives like those in the OP constantly? This is why I give up.
I've said it countless times. We have a cultural problem that has become intertwined with our community. But we're the only race that takes up for, defends, and make excuses for the degenerates. You don't see this in the Asian, Jewish, Mexican, and even white communities. They treat the degenerates like a subset. That's why the trailer park trash stays in the woods behind the suburban houses. But we prop these folks up and let them feel like it's a badge of honor to be degenerates out here. There has to be a scism at this point. This motto of taking up and defending all this bad behavior is foolishness has got to stop. Some folks have to be left behind to face the consequences of their actions...smh
 

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I've said it countless times. We have a cultural problem that has become intertwined with our community. But we're the only race that takes up for, defends, and make excuses for the degenerates. You don't see this in the Asian, Jewish, Mexican, and even white communities. They treat the degenerates like a subset. That's why the trailer park trash stays in the woods behind the suburban houses. But we prop these folks up and let them feel like it's a badge of honor to be degenerates out here. There has to be a scism at this point. This motto of taking up and defending all this bad behavior is foolishness has got to stop. Some folks have to be left behind to face the consequences of their actions...smh

It all stems from the "real nikka" mentality from the late 80s.

Cats believe that the authentic black experience is filled with crime and ignorance.
 

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It all stems from the "real nikka" mentality from the late 80s.

Cats believe that the authentic black experience is filled with crime and ignorance.
They look up to and worship it but then turn around and cry victim when they finally have to face consequences for it. I'm tired of folks using racism and the crack era as their excuse to why their lives are effed up instead of looking in the mirror
 

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They look up to and worship it but then turn around and cry victim when they finally have to face consequences for it. I'm tired of folks using racism and the crack era as their excuse to why their lives are effed up instead of looking in the mirror

Racism does exist, but the point is not to give these CACs any ammunition to further re enforcing stereotypes.

I grew up in the 90s when superthugs ran everything. The streets, the fashion trends, even how/what facial expressions the average black male should do. That was mental slavery defined and literally, if knew a ton of brehs going in and out of juvie for the sake of street cred and getting with bytches.
 

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Welp,

Time to ask for cards to keep on file.:francis: I thought all restaurants do that these days??

It's also why spots charge for gratuity. :francis:
 
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