30+ Brehs… What’s up with these old chicks wanting babies?

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  1. UncleTomFord15

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    How is having kids in your mid 30s weird:dwillhuh:? After 35 having kids for a woman becomes more dangerous but thats really only if the woman is in terrible shape and spent her former years with alot of drugs/alcohol etc.
     
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  2. Ashley Banks

    Ashley Banks All I ever wanted was the world

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    The coli thinks that everybody lives one life. But even if those women did do that why do they have an issue with that? No one is forcing them to have kids with those women, don’t coli men not date women over 26? So why worry about these women?
     
  3. High Value Man

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    Do you plan on having kids?
     
  4. JLova

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    Re-read what I said you fukking dope!
     
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    Of course its all relative. But most people prefer to be with someone close to their age
     
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  6. Ashley Banks

    Ashley Banks All I ever wanted was the world

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    most women that have kids after 35 have perfectly healthy babies. The risk for complications are higher but it’s not a guarantee.
     
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    All you need to know about OPs views on family planning,

    I Can't Catch A Break... I'll be a grandfather at 33

    Think it's better to be a 33 year old grandfather than a 33 year old first time parent brehs:picard:I

    And it's just hormones OP, maternal age over 30 is actually now considered regular in post industrial nations
     
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    But let the coli tell it, if you’re childless at 33 it’s the end of the line for you.
     
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    Hate to say it, but I'm staying away from older women. 22-27 my age range
     
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    Yes because being a baby mama in her 20s is the way too go.:skip:
     
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    Find a dependable man when you’re 22-25. Preferably one that’s 27-28. Get married. Have kids. How hard is that?
     
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    That's my situation,met my lady when she just turned 30, she is still a dyme at 33 tho. We plan on having a kid soon
     
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    Your scenario completely skips the fact that most women are not stable at 22 or even 25. Because you work off an assumption that the man should essentially function as the parent for his wife until she fully gets it together.

    Your scenario also ignores the fact that most black men are not in a stable place by even their late 20’s. In this thread alone, men have agreed that many BM don’t come into their stride until their 30’s.

    And you didn’t even touch on the millIons of BM currently incarcerated or recently released, with a record that hinders their earning potential.

    Taking just those factors into consideration, makes the issue much harder than what you just tried to present.
     
  15. High Value Man

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    It's not easy finding quality people that you are also compatible with. Some people find the love of their lives in their 30s, 40s, 50s etc
     

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