30+ Brehs… What’s up with these old chicks wanting babies?

[UncleTomFord15]

How is having kids in your mid 30s weird? After 35 having kids for a woman becomes more dangerous but thats really only if the woman is in terrible shape and spent her former years with alot of drugs/alcohol etc.

 

[Ashley Banks]

You know what it is. They saying that these women spent their entire 20s being smutted out by thugs and once they hit their 30s they wanna settle down and have kids

The coli thinks that everybody lives one life. But even if those women did do that why do they have an issue with that? No one is forcing them to have kids with those women, don’t coli men not date women over 26? So why worry about these women?

 

[International Playa]

Complain about women being single moms, while simultaneously complaining that are waiting for marriage to have kids brehs.

Maybe they didn’t meet the right person yet. My girl and I are both 37 with no kids. I knew her in high school, and we reconnected. It just didn’t happen for her.

Do you plan on having kids?

 

[JLova]

they aren't mature at 25. Not sure what world you live in but the current generations are probably the least mature for their age in recorded human history.

Re-read what I said you fukking dope!

 

[BmoreGorilla]

No but If you gave every man a choice to start a family with a 32 year old or 23

Now theres always gonna be different factors though

Of course its all relative. But most people prefer to be with someone close to their age

 

[Ashley Banks]

How is having kids in your mid 30s weird? After 35 having kids for a woman becomes more dangerous but thats really only if the woman is in terrible shape and spent her former years with alot of drugs/alcohol etc.

most women that have kids after 35 have perfectly healthy babies. The risk for complications are higher but it’s not a guarantee.

 

[paperbag]

Yall really mad at women waiting to find the right person or until they’re stable, own homes or feel ready before having kids then y’all insult single mothers and younger mothers for the poor choices in fathers, for mother’s that feel like they missed out on their youth and want to party when they’re older, or women that aren’t financially stable rely on government assistance. Women really can’t win with y’all

All you need to know about OPs views on family planning,

I Can't Catch A Break... I'll be a grandfather at 33

Think it's better to be a 33 year old grandfather than a 33 year old first time parent brehsI

And it's just hormones OP, maternal age over 30 is actually now considered regular in post industrial nations

 

[Ashley Banks]

All you need to know about OPs views on family planning,

I Can't Catch A Break... I'll be a grandfather at 33

Think it's better to be a 33 year old grandfather than a 33 year old first time parent brehsI

And it's just hormones OP, maternal age over 30 is actually now considered regular in post industrial nations

But let the coli tell it, if you’re childless at 33 it’s the end of the line for you.

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

Hate to say it, but I'm staying away from older women. 22-27 my age range

 

[pickles]

Yes because being a baby mama in her 20s is the way too go.

 

[Ozymandeas]

When a woman wants to wait until she's stable (which obviously doesn't happen until you're a bit older) and married to have kids she's delusional. When a woman has kids before this, she's reckless and a scourge to the community. When a woman doesn't want kids, she's useless.

Make it make sense.

Find a dependable man when you’re 22-25. Preferably one that’s 27-28. Get married. Have kids. How hard is that?

 

[getmoney310cpt]

Being 30 with no kids in this time is a blessing a lot of nikkas throw away without thought.

 

[International Playa]

This from a mans perspective, why date a 31 year old for say 2 years impregnate her at 33 and the kid be born when shes 34. Takes her till shes 37 to lose the weight(if she ever does) and damn near 40 where she'll be

Now think about that from a mans perspective

That's my situation,met my lady when she just turned 30, she is still a dyme at 33 tho. We plan on having a kid soon

 

[AsTheWorldBurns]

Find a dependable man when you’re 22-25. Preferably one that’s 27-28. Get married. Have kids. How hard is that?

Your scenario completely skips the fact that most women are not stable at 22 or even 25. Because you work off an assumption that the man should essentially function as the parent for his wife until she fully gets it together.

Your scenario also ignores the fact that most black men are not in a stable place by even their late 20’s. In this thread alone, men have agreed that many BM don’t come into their stride until their 30’s.

And you didn’t even touch on the millIons of BM currently incarcerated or recently released, with a record that hinders their earning potential.

Taking just those factors into consideration, makes the issue much harder than what you just tried to present.

 

[International Playa]

Find a dependable man when you’re 22-25. Preferably one that’s 27-28. Get married. Have kids. How hard is that?

It's not easy finding quality people that you are also compatible with. Some people find the love of their lives in their 30s, 40s, 50s etc