32 in the suburbs is 45 and 32 in the city is 22. I can’t explain but I’m right.

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She has a point.

When I was living in NYC in my thirties I felt like I was in my twenties.
I was dating women in their twenties, most of my circle of friends were people in their twenties, most of the places that I was hanging out at was populated by people in their twenties and also their thirties and forties too.

Now that I live smack dab in the middle of the suburbs and the city...people be having families in their 20s and shyt while I was partying into my 30s living in NYC.

The suburbs are just a slower pace with an older population.

You can cheat father time all you want but time
always tells the truth.
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You pissed away your 20s partying while everybody else buckled down in their careers and started families.
Now you feel old.
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Well, Idk about all that, but people who live in the burbs tend to live slower than people who live in the city. Burbites tend to drive more, stay at home more. City folk may walk more, thus staying in shape more. But, all of this depends on the individual..

An active person is an active person. Live life fast and one may age faster. Live life slower and one may live longer. The latter is true for many of our G-Mas.
 

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what does your 30s look like when you are unmarried, no kids & no house? For the last few centuries, it was the norm to be married with kids in a house (or some type of dwelling) by 30.

now you got millions of people who will never do any of those things. Never get married, never have kids, never own a home. what does their 30s look like for them? is it just the 20s all over again with worse knees?
 
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what does your 30s look like when you are unmarried, no kids & no house? For the last few centuries, it was the norm to be married with kids in a house (or some type of dwelling) by 30.

now you got millions of people who will never do any of those things. Never get married, never have kids, never own a home. what does 30s looks like for them? is it just the 20s all over again with worse knees?

shes making it a suburb versus city thing, but time has moved backwards in what you said.

the average 21 year old in the 1950s was a married father and now the average 21 year old has zero responsibilities because of the times.

there are 40 plus year old men with less maturity and responsibilities than the average 16 year old of even the 1970s.

everyone not a race thing, everyone is on that benjamin button nonsense! regressing with the times. :hubie:
 

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shes making it a suburb versus city thing, but time has moved backwards in what you said.

the average 21 year old in the 1950s was a married father and now the average 21 year old has zero responsibilities because of the times.

there are 40 plus year old men with less maturity and responsibilities than the average 16 year old of even the 1970s.

everyone not a race thing, everyone is on that benjamin button nonsense! regressing with the times. :hubie:
People are claiming 23 yo are "kids". LOL.
 

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I get what she's saying and where she's coming

Most likely she is still active in her social "scene" She's prolly a transplant and a lot of her friends back home seem "old" too her because they have a different lifestyle that doesn't revolve around nightlife/fashion/sex.

Lowkey she prolly has a boyfriend who won't commit so everyone who's "32 is really 22" (immature)

This city vs suburb online divide is pretty silly. Shorty just needs to find a circle that she fits in and has nothing to do with where she's @
 

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what does your 30s look like when you are unmarried, no kids & no house? For the last few centuries, it was the norm to be married with kids in a house (or some type of dwelling) by 30.

now you got millions of people who will never do any of those things. Never get married, never have kids, never own a home. what does their 30s look like for them? is it just the 20s all over again with worse knees?
30 with no marriage and kids for me is a wiser 20s. More money, better career. I still feel 21. And if your knees feel bad in your 30s, I feel bad for you.
 
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