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it does exist and if you're a nikka it probably means you don't have any options and if you're a female you either don't have any other options or you're not trying to settle
 

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So what do you think you were doing right that he was doing wrong?

:dead: these hoes ain't loyal


I've had single moms allude to that, usually I smash, they were trying to use me for my perceived integrity :damn:
Same dude been thirsting over this latina for years and she does exactly what moon goddess says... Uses a nikka when bored.

She would set up Friday night plans with my nikka all the time then cancel last minute not respond to her phone msgs. One time she does this then turns up with one of our other friends at a party. Turns out he was smutting her out.:russ:

Dude threw her to the bushes eventually. She goes back to hanging with my boy after I've told him to cut her off for just being disrespectful. He doesn't so she keeps using him as back up plans. She now starts asking me to hang with her because she likes to smoke from time to time. I gauge his temp on this one, he says its fair game but I back off... Dude taking her out to dinners n shyt:what: still to this day:what: and this was couple years ago… I know he has feelings for her :snoop:

I just don't chase, if the attraction ain't mutual :manny:
 

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Same dude been thirsting over this latina for years and she does exactly what moon goddess says... Uses a nikka when bored.

She would set up Friday night plans with my nikka all the time then cancel last minute not respond to her phone msgs. One time she does this then turns up with one of our other friends at a party. Turns out he was smutting her out.:russ:

Dude threw her to the bushes eventually. She goes back to hanging with my boy after I've told him to cut her off for just being disrespectful. He doesn't so she keeps using him as back up plans. She now starts asking me to hang with her because she likes to smoke from time to time. I gauge his temp on this one, he says its fair game but I back off... Dude taking her out to dinners n shyt:what: still to this day:what: and this was couple years ago… I know he has feelings for her :snoop:

I just don't chase, if the attraction ain't mutual :manny:

Your dude lost, after that whole canceling plans shyt would have been deaded to me...
 

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the caveat to the friend zone is that yall not really friends like that anyway
the minute she finds a nikka (or bytch) she actually wanna fukk, you WILL hit the bushes
either she wont fukk with you like that or her dude (or chick) wont want her too
the minute that relationship ends is when you'll see her again and have to put her back together for the next nikka (or bytch)
that's the offensive part of the friend zone for those asking
that being said, only U can allow yourself to be put in the zone. Not her, U nikka! Make a choice.
 

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What the hell is the friendzone?

If a girl isn't physically attracted to you but still thinks you are a decent human being, why the hell is that a thing to men?

I still don't understand the concept of being offended at someone who acknowledges ur awesomeness despite the curious drying of the vagina when in close proximity.

You aren't going to be everything to everyone. Get over it. If someone genuinely wants to chill with you just for you, take that as a compliment and move on to other pastures.
I'm curious, why would you want a guy that you know wants to hit, stick around and thirst you? Is your ego that fragile?
 

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I keep reading these sob stories of virgins on the coli, talmbout how they been put in the friendzone and once they get there, there's no way out


but I gotta ask: is that a real thing?

If I decide to approach you for your mind and get to know you as a friend, instead of coming for your beautiful titties and nice ass.... does that mean that you will forever look at me as a friend and nothing more? :ohhh:

No, It really depends.

I could initially not find you attractive and only want to be friends but if I got to know you and we clicked personality wise(and you're not hideous or fat), I could probably delevop those type of feelings.

There's also the guys that I find attractive initially but their personality makes me see them as more of a friend. Now those guys will probably always be in the friend zone.


This is just me. Can't speak for all women.
 
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Yes, it does exist. Some of us are evil and we laugh at you and your pitiful attempts to try to get us to see you as more than someone we can talk to when we are bored or to boost our ego when the guy that we really like doesnt pay us any mind. Oh and when we need you to make our boyfriends jealous. Or need a ride, or someone to go to the mechanic with when our car is acting up. Or to help is with plumbing. Or to paint our toenails when our real female friends are busy.
Whats even more funny is that some of us will rub up against you, rub your shoulders, hug you and press our boobs against you and act offended when you get a boner.
male-tears.gif

Oh and you better not get a girl friend, cause we'll sabotage that too:demonic:

Pure evil.
 

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I'm curious, why would you want a guy that you know wants to hit, stick around and thirst you? Is your ego that fragile?
It's not necessarily about what I want in this case b/c ole boy is literally choosing to be there. Also I'm not responsible for his dyck. If you broach a conversation and I tell you I'm not into you that way and you still want to be around, I'm going to assume you can handle being cool w/o bothering me. I'll hook you up with female friends, maybe give u a few pointers, help you make a new circle of friends. The works.

But ain't no such thing as the friendzone. It's a catchphrase for the asshurt men experience when a girl thinks ur an okay human being just not fukkable. Men are A-ok with having preferences but resent women for theirs even when we've made them abundantly clear.

If ur dumb enuff to feign friendship with ulterior motives, ur dry dikk ain't my responsibility b/c you should be genuine with people. Nice spin tho.
 

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No, It really depends.

I could initially not find you attractive and only want to be friends but if I got to you know and we clicked personality wise(and you're not hideous or fat), I could probably delevop those type of feelings.

There's also the guys that I find attractive initially but their personality makes me see them as more of a friend. Now those guys will probably always be in the friend zone.


This is just me. Can't speak for all women.
Indeed. I've met guys I was instantly physically attracted to whose personalities later on made my vagina shrivel up like a snail in salt.

I've met guys that were okay looking and initially didn't do it for me but whose personalities won me over in the end.

I've had male friends that were cool but that I didn't get a relationship vibe from.

I have male friends where the sexual chemistry is there for both of us but I know getting together wouldn't be any good for either of us.

There are a lot of reasons why a woman might have a casual guy friend and not fukk him. Sometimes you just don't need to fukk everything.
 

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Yes, it does exist. Some of us are evil and we laugh at you and your pitiful attempts to try to get us to see you as more than someone we can talk to when we are bored or to boost our ego when the guy that we really like doesnt pay us any mind. Oh and when we need you to make our boyfriends jealous. Or need a ride, or someone to go to the mechanic with when our car is acting up. Or to help is with plumbing. Or to paint our toenails when our real female friends are busy.
Whats even more funny is that some of us will rub up against you, rub your shoulders, hug you and press our boobs against you and act offended when you get a boner.
male-tears.gif

Oh and you better not get a girl friend, cause we'll sabotage that too:demonic:

:troll: on a hunnid.

...right? :to:
 

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the caveat to the friend zone is that yall not really friends like that anyway
the minute she finds a nikka (or bytch) she actually wanna fukk, you WILL hit the bushes
either she wont fukk with you like that or her dude (or chick) wont want her too
the minute that relationship ends is when you'll see her again and have to put her back together for the next nikka (or bytch)
that's the offensive part of the friend zone for those asking
that being said, only U can allow yourself to be put in the zone. Not her, U nikka! Make a choice.

:mjlol: Be too awkward to make things sexual when she shows obvious interest brehs.

:mjlol: Act surprised she aint fukkin wit chu when you missed the hint after the fact brehs.

:mjlol: Wonder why you still stuck in purgatory while other dude getting the draws brehs.

:mjlol: Wonder why she playing you like a fiddle for your attention brehs.

May or not be based on a true story. :mjcry:
You live and learn tho. :win:
 

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Do some women keep men around who they will never have sex with to use financially and emotionally? Yes.
I keep reading these sob stories of virgins on the coli, talmbout how they been put in the friendzone and once they get there, there's no way out


but I gotta ask: is that a real thing?

If I decide to approach you for your mind and get to know you as a friend, instead of coming for your beautiful titties and nice ass.... does that mean that you will forever look at me as a friend and nothing more? :ohhh:
If you initially approach in a non "romantic intentions" vibe as a complete stranger that's just weird. I would just prepare my self for the unsolicited attempts to touch me or kiss me or offers to eat me that might be forthcoming during one of our times hanging as "just friends". Been there and had to hit them with the " what are you doing?"

Strange men don't approach me to "get to know me as a friend" in my experience
 
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